Genesis 33:1-20
December 4, 2016
Lord’s Day Worship
Sean Higgins
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The sermon starts at 20:28 in the audio file.
Or, Jacob and Esau’s Short Reunion
Jacob and Esau are about to meet for the first time in around 21 years. They have not been keeping tabs on each other; they’ve exchanged no correspondence. We know some about what happened in Jacob’s life during that time but nothing about what Esau’s been doing.
The last Esau knew, Jacob was a conniving deceiver who grasped for what wasn’t his, namely Esau’s birthright and blessing, and ran away to a distant relative because mommy and daddy said they didn’t want him to marry a Canaanite woman like his brother. Esau has had two decades to marinate in that bitter sauce. The last Jacob knew, Esau wanted to kill him, even though he planned to wait until their dad was dead. Jacob had two decades to marinate in that fearful suspense.
The LORD told Jacob to go home, though. He’d been working for his mother’s brother, Laban, for all this time. Laban was a worse cheat than Jacob. Laban kept cheating the cheater, and so Jacob was eager to be out from under his uncle / father-in-law / boss. But having escaped one mess, Jacob is heading into a potential disaster.
In Genesis 32 Jacob sent messengers ahead to make contact with his brother. What he heard back, that Esau was on his way to meet Jacob, with a small army of men, made Jacob “greatly afraid and distressed” (verse 7). Yeah. So he prayed to the LORD based on the LORD’s promises. Then he sent waves of presents to Esau in hopes to “appease” him, in hopes that Esau “will accept” him (verse 20). We’re about to see.
Before we see what happens, a “man” wrestled Jacob for most of the night. This man broke Jacob’s hip, then changed Jacob’s name to Israel, then he left. Jacob realized that this man was God in flesh.
Jacob hasn’t slept, he’s wrestled all night, and he can’t walk right; he’s limping. He doesn’t have energy or strength. And now, in that condition, he meets his brother and his brother’s army. He can’t run, he can’t fight, he needs to find favor in his brother’s sight or he’s dead.
Together Again (verses 1-11)
Putting His Things in Order (verses 1-3)
The two camps, Jacob and Esau’s, are within sight of each other. Jacob lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, Esau was coming, and four hundred men with him. He can see for himself, and none of the men from Esau’s camp have peeled off for other destinations.
So [Jacob] divided the children among Leah and Rachel and the two female servants. He starts to make smaller groups, then he put those groups in order by importance to him. He put the servants with their children in front, then Leah with her children, and Rachel and Joseph last of all. Everyone knew where they stood. If this was for safety by distance from harm, or even if it was for ceremonial purposes, save the best for last. We’ve known Jacob’s preferences for a while, but they’ve not changed.
What’s changed is in verse 3. He himself went on before them. Jacob goes first, he’s out in front rather than behind. He becomes the barrier instead of hiding behind one. This is the man’s way. As Joe Rigney puts it based on King Lune in The Horse and His Boy, a real man is: first in, last out, laughing loudest. Jacob shows courage and humility, bowing himself to the ground seven times, until he came to his brother. He defers. He submits. He hopes for favor.
Isaac had prophesied about which brother would bow to the other in Genesis 27:29, a prophesy he meant for Esau but went to Jacob. For the time being, Jacob bows before Esau.
Putting His Neck Out (verses 4-11)
No talk, just a flurry of action. But Esau ran to meet him and embraced him and fell on his neck and kissed him. These are four verbs of grace-giving. Four verbs of fear-releasing. Four verbs of big brother, sloppy, man joy. Jacob wasn’t weirded out, he got the message that he was received. Esau embraced him, th[...]