In this episode, I speak about and share why I feel it's necessary to normalise celebrating our f*cking wins.

I've made a ten point list as to why I believe it's important for us all to celebrate our wins.

1) We don’t do it enough.

You’ve been taught to downplay your wins in order to make others feel better and it doesn’t work.

You’ve now shrunk and they still feel like shit. 

2) Lead proudly by example and own your fucking wins.

Show people what is possible when they show up.

3) You give others permission to do the same.

Even better, you remind others to give themselves permission.

They don’t need your permission, they just need their own. 

4) You fought through resistance, worked your ass off, and didn’t give up.

Yeah, I’ll celebrate that. 

5) You remind people what’s possible with belief, implementation, and consistency. 

6) You normalise self-honour, self-mastery, and self-respect.

You break the perception of arrogance vs confidence.

You practice self-validation instead of external-validation. 

7) You break the habit of playing small to protect others, which is the worst kind of protection of all.

8) You remind people that jealousy is a gift.

If they’re jealous of what you have, that feeling of jealousy has just gifted them with the clarity of knowing what they want and what is standing in their way, which is their own beliefs. 

9) We all want to feel seen.

Celebrate your wins and make yourself feel seen. 

10) If I can’t be happy for your wins, that’s on me.

I’ve got some work to do.