Love Each Other Better

05: What are we actually fighting about?


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In this illuminating episode, we delve deep into the heart of conflict within relationships. In my work with hundreds of couples I've noticed a common thread that keeps couples stuck in endless cycles of conflict: they're stuck in what I call "courtroom mentality," where both people are putting all their energy into trying to prove who is in the right and who is in the wrong. And this never leads anywhere helpful.

Join me as I unpack the real roots of relationship discord and discover the transformative power of focusing on needs over all else. Through engaging anecdotes based on actual clients and practical insights, we'll explore how to shift from a winner-loser mindset to one of win-win through connection, ultimately paving the way for deeper intimacy and harmony in your relationships.

If you're tired of feeling stuck in conflict and yearn for greater understanding and connection with your partner, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and embark on a journey toward healing, empathy, and true relationship satisfaction.

RESOURCES:

I have two gifts for you!

  1. Comprehensive list of Universal Human Needs: www.alimillercoaching.com/feelingsandneeds
  2. Book a free 30-minute call with me to make a custom plan for how you and your partner can love each other better: www.calendly.com/alimillercoaching/30

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