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07 | Why You Shouldn't Say Things Like "Always" or "Never" in The Home: Breaking Out of The All or Nothing Mindset


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Episode 7: Why You Shouldn't Say Things Like "Always" or "Never" in the Home - Breaking Out of the All-or-Nothing Mindset

Are you stuck in an all-or-nothing mindset? It’s easy to fall into the trap of saying things like “You always do this!” or “You never help!” but these statements can do more harm than good—especially in your marriage and parenting.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into why these words can hurt your relationships and hinder personal growth. You'll learn how to break free from the cycle of negativity and start fostering a more creative, positive, and understanding environment at home.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

  • How saying "always" or "never" hurts your spouse—we’ll explore how these words amplify negativity and close down conversation.
  • The impact of an all-or-nothing mindset on your children—how limited thinking can prevent your kids from developing creativity and resilience.
  • Practical steps to break free from this mindset—a simple, actionable plan for overcoming the negativity bias and focusing on growth and positivity.
  • We’ll give you tools to start changing the way you think and communicate with your family. You don't have to remain stuck in the trap of perfectionism or negativity. It's time to embrace a balanced mindset!

    Action Step: Notice when you're using "always" or "never," and take a moment to challenge these thoughts. Start recognizing alternative, more positive perspectives.

    Here's what you need to know: Knowledge alone won’t change your life—it’s the application of what you’ve learned that makes the real difference. As 2 Corinthians 9:6 says, “Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully.” If you're ready to go deeper, book a free coaching consultation with me today—I have limited availability, so don’t wait!

     

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