Love Each Other Better

09: "But NVC is so unnatural."


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In this episode, I dive into a common critique of Nonviolent Communication (NVC): that it feels robotic, formal, inauthentic, and unnatural. Have you encountered this criticism before, or do you share these feelings yourself? Or maybe your partner has said this?

NVC is a powerful framework for communication and conflict resolution, but some struggle with its structured approach, particularly the self-expression component involving observations, feelings, needs, and requests.

Let's unpack this criticism and explore why it's SO worth embracing the initial awkwardness of NVC.

Yes, NVC can feel awkward and unnatural initially, but consider the alternative: fruitless fights, simmering resentment, and unhappy relationships. NVC, with its radically heart-centered approach, offers a path to deeper connection, understanding, and mutual fulfillment.

Join me as we explore how NVC can open hearts and transform relationships. Let's embrace the unfamiliar and discover how to love each other better.

For personalized support in applying NVC to your relationship, explore my new Private Coaching Program for Couples at www.alimillercoaching.com/stopfighting.

Email me [email protected] with any questions or feedback about this episode - I'd love to hear from you!

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