Some of you want a godly relationship more than you want to be godly. This is the 10% your friends won’t say out loud. In today’s episode, we share 10 hard truths about Christian dating—the stuff that actually breaks cycles: real boundaries, real wisdom, real community, and real holiness. If you’re tired of vague “vibes” and churchy clichés, this will give you clarity and a plan.What you’ll learn:- How to stop mistaking disobedience for discernment- Why church attendance ≠ character (look for fruit, not a vibe)- Emotional purity vs. attention-seeking (“flirting for validation”)- How to set godly dating boundaries that protect your future marriage- The difference between habits and fruit (results you can see)- Why holiness might cost you dates—but can save you from divorce- How to prepare in singleness so you don’t repeat cycles in marriageIf this convicts you, good. Conviction is a gift, not a punishment. Let’s get free and build love God’s way.👥 New here? We help Christian singles and couples date with fun + holiness—and build marriages that last.▶️ Watch next:• Boundaries That Actually Work in Christian Dating• Red Flags Christians Ignore (and Why)• How to Involve Mentors & Community the Right WayCHAPTERS:00:00 Godly Relationship vs. Being Godly00:38 Why Hard Truth Matters02:17 Conviction Is a Gift03:00 Goal: Honor God in Dating04:12 Media Shapes Love Views04:55 #1 Red Flags vs. Fake Peace08:24 #2 Church ≠ Character12:10 #3 Want Godly Love, Be Godly15:04 #4 Stop Shrinking Yourself19:49 #5 Don’t Lead People On20:53 #6 God Won’t Bless Secrets23:47 #7 Dating Isn’t Your Purpose26:57 #8 Waiting ≠ Doing Nothing29:24 #9 Ask “Am I Ready?”30:29 #10 Holiness Breaks Cycles35:46 Honoring God Isn’t a Loss36:43 Final EncouragementChristian dating advice, godly relationship, Christian boundaries, emotional purity, Christian red flags, dating with purpose, Christian singles, how to date as a Christian, Christian relationship podcast, how to set boundaries in dating, Christian mentorship and accountability, holiness in dating, fruit of the Spirit dating, Christian YouTube couple👍 If this helped: like, comment “REAL,” and share with a friend who’s ready to grow.🔔 Subscribe for weekly wisdom that’s fun & holy.