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If you’re a Christian who loves God but feels confused, tired, or stuck in your dating life, this episode is for you.
In this best-of compilation, you’re going to gain clarity on the beliefs, habits, and spiritual shortcuts that quietly keep Christian singles frustrated—and learn how to step into 2026 with confidence, peace, and direction.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to:
- Stop over-spiritualizing dating decisions that require action
- Discern when God is leading you to wait—and when He’s inviting you to move
- Process the loneliness of singleness without shame or spiritual guilt
- Break the cycle of dating emotionally unavailable or time-wasting people
- Protect your heart without closing yourself off
- Understand God’s role in choosing a spouse without fear or pressure
- Build character and clarity now so marriage doesn’t crush you later
- Prepare for marriage intimacy with healthy, biblical expectations
If you’ve ever wondered:
- “Did I miss my chance?”
- “Why does waiting feel harder for me than everyone else?”
- “Am I being too spiritual—or not spiritual enough?”
- “Is waiting until marriage actually worth it?”
You’re not behind—and you’re not broken.
This episode will help you reset your dating mindset, release pressure, and move forward with wisdom instead of anxiety.
CHAPTERS:
0:00 – The Dating Mindsets That Keep You Stuck
0:07 – How to Involve God Without Avoiding Action
3:07 – Why Waiting for Marriage Feels Emotionally Harder Than Anything Else
5:17 – What to Do When You’re Faithful but Still Single
7:30 – How to Validate Your Desire for Marriage Without Shame
9:50 – Understanding the “Prisoner of Hope” Feeling
10:21 – How to Stay Hopeful When Waiting Hurts
12:30 – Why Faithfulness Can Feel Overlooked
14:14 – How to Stop Fearing That You Missed Your Chance
17:36 – How to Date from Discernment, Not Desperation
20:00 – Why Lowering Standards Creates More Confusion
22:22 – How God Uses Waiting to Build Character for Marriage
24:33 – How to Steward Singleness Without Wasting It
27:20 – Learning to Trust God Without Full Understanding
30:14 – Why God Doesn’t Always Explain the Timing
32:06 – Releasing the Lie That You’re Forgotten
33:40 – Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People
36:45 – How Location, Presentation, and Expectations Shape Who You Attract
41:00 – Why Not Understanding God’s Direction Can Be a Gift
41:49 – How to Release Fear Around Waiting Until Marriage
42:42 – What to Expect from Sex in a Godly Marriage
45:02 – How Sexual Mindsets Impact Emotional Safety
49:00 – How to Remove Pressure from the Wedding Night
53:00 – Building Trust and Intimacy Step-by-Step
59:12 – What to Do When Sex Isn’t Instantly “Great”
1:02:36 – Healing Mental and Emotional Blocks
1:09:42 – How Patience Builds Long-Term Intimacy
1:12:35 – Giving Yourself Permission to Enjoy Sex God’s Way
1:16:19 – Why Unity Matters More Than Performance
1:17:00 – How to Think Clearly About God’s Role in Choosing a Spouse
1:22:12 – How to Read the Bible Without Dating Fear
1:28:54 – Why Community Matters More Than Certainty
1:36:13 – How Free Will and God’s Will Work Together
1:40:11 – How to Stop Overspiritualizing Dating Decisions
1:41:32 – How to Enter 2026 with Clarity and Peace
