Are you wandering through life, hoping things will eventually fall into place? Or are you choosing today in a way that sets your future self up for the life you really want?
In this episode, I share a powerful lesson I learned while hiking 19 trails in 10 days. You’ll discover why the vision you hold for your future matters, and how the choices you make right now shape whether tomorrow feels full of possibility—or full of despair.
I’ll also speak directly to the three entry points into singleness—never married, divorced, and widowed—and walk you through specific steps you can take today to create a brighter, love-ready future.
If you’ve been wandering, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and practical tools to start moving forward with confidence.
WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider 
Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and an exclusive invite to the LIVE October 12th Love-Ready Lab workshop! 
🔗 <a href='https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider'>sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider</a>
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook! 
Come hang out with other single LDS women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group: 
🔗 <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649'>The Single LDS Woman</a>
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation Call 
If you're ready to stop showing up desperate? Let’s talk. 
🔗 <a href='https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session'>sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session</a>
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Are you wandering through life, hoping things will eventually fall into place? Or are you choosing today in a way that sets your future self up for the life you really want? In this episode, I share a powerful lesson I learned while hiking 19 trails in 10 days. You’ll discover why the vision you hold for your future matters, and how the choices you make right now shape whether tomorrow feels full of possibility—or full of despair. I’ll also speak directly to the three entry points into singleness—never married, divorced, and widowed—and walk you through specific steps you can take today to create a brighter, love-ready future. If you’ve been wandering, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and practical tools to start moving forward with confidence. WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇 ➡️ Become an Insider Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and an exclusive invite to the LIVE October 12th Love-Ready Lab workshop! 🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider 💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook! Come hang out with other single LDS women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group: 🔗 The Single LDS Woman 🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation Call If you're ready to stop showing up desperate? Let’s talk. 🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

Are you wandering through life, hoping things will eventually fall into place? Or are you choosing today in a way that sets your future self up for the life you really want?
In this episode, I share a powerful lesson I learned while hiking 19 trails in 10 days. You’ll discover why the vision you hold for your future matters, and how the choices you make right now shape whether tomorrow feels full of possibility—or full of despair.
I’ll also speak directly to the three entry points into singleness—never married, divorced, and widowed—and walk you through specific steps you can take today to create a brighter, love-ready future.
If you’ve been wandering, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and practical tools to start moving forward with confidence.
WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇
➡️ Become an Insider 
Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and an exclusive invite to the LIVE October 12th Love-Ready Lab workshop! 
🔗 <a href="https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider" rel="noopener noreferrer">sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider</a>
💬 Join the Conversation on Facebook! 
Come hang out with other single LDS women who get it. Laugh, learn, and grow in our private group: 
🔗 <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/797710822384649" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Single LDS Woman</a>
🎧 Ready to Go Deeper? Book a Complimentary Consultation Call 
If you're ready to stop showing up desperate? Let’s talk. 
🔗 <a href="https://www.sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session" rel="noopener noreferrer">sharonlamarcoaching.com/book-a-session</a>
Hope this episode inspires you or makes you think.

107. 3 Choices You Can Make Today to Create a Future You Love

You’re doing everything right—but still single. You’ve prayed. Stayed faithful. Attended BYU. And yet… no husband. No temple sealing. No timeline that makes sense. You sit in church surrounded by couples and families, wondering where you fit—and if you even matter. You’ve heard the talks. You strive to keep the commandments. Tried to stay hopeful. But deep down, you can’t shake the ache: 🌀 Did I miss my chance? 🌀 Am I broken—or worse, forgotten? 🌀 What does this mean for my exaltation… and about my worth? If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not crazy. You’re not broken. And you’re not alone. Welcome to The Single LDS Woman—a podcast for women like you who are navigating the complicated, often painful reality of being single in a family-focused church. In this podcast, you’ll find: ✨ Real talk for LDS singles ✨ Faith-based life coaching grounded in LDS doctrine ✨ Mindset tools that actually work (no toxic positivity here) ✨ Honest conversations about chastity, loneliness, worthiness, and eternal marriage I’m Sharon Lamar—a certified life coach and faithful member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I didn’t get married until I was 52. I know the questions that keep you up at night. I’ve lived the waiting, the wondering, and the quiet heartbreak. But I also discovered something life-changing: You can stop waiting to be happy and still be faithful. You can build a life you love—even while hoping for something more. And most of all, you can trust God and trust yourself again. 💡 In this podcast, I’ll teach you how—with proven faith-based tips and tools, self-coaching strategies, and a reminder of who you really are. Whether you’re never married, divorced, widowed—or not even LDS but still feeling all of this—this podcast is for you. Because this isn’t just about your relationship status. It’s about reclaiming your self-confidence, living happy now even while wanting more, and remembering your worth. So… grab your Diet Coke 😉, pop in your earbuds, and let’s talk. Friend to friend. Sister to sister. 💌 Email me anytime: sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com 🌐 Visit my website: sharonlamarcoaching.com

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You’re doing everything right—but still single.You’ve prayed. Stayed faithful. Attended BYU.And yet… no husband. No temple sealing. No timeline that makes sense.You sit in church surrounded by couples and families, wondering where you fit—and if you even matter.You’ve heard the talks. You strive to keep the commandments. Tried to stay hopeful.But deep down, you can’t shake the ache:🌀 Did I miss my chance?🌀 Am I broken—or worse, forgotten?🌀 What does this mean for my exaltation… and about my worth?If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not crazy. You’re not broken. And you’re not alone.Welcome to The Single LDS Woman—a podcast for women like you who are navigating the complicated, often painful reality of being single in a family-focused church.In this podcast, you’ll find:✨ Real talk for LDS singles✨ Faith-based life coaching grounded in LDS doctrine✨ Mindset tools that actually work (no toxic positivity here)✨ Honest conversations about chastity, loneliness, worthiness, and eternal marriageI’m Sharon Lamar—a certified life coach and faithful member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I didn’t get married until I was 52.I know the questions that keep you up at night.I’ve lived the waiting, the wondering, and the quiet heartbreak.But I also discovered something life-changing:You can stop waiting to be happy and still be faithful.You can build a life you love—even while hoping for something more.And most of all, you can trust God and trust yourself again.💡 In this podcast, I’ll teach you how—with proven faith-based tips and tools, self-coaching strategies, and a reminder of who you really are.Whether you’re never married, divorced, widowed—or not even LDS but still feeling all of this—this podcast is for you.Because this isn’t just about your relationship status.It’s about reclaiming your self-confidence, living happy now even while wanting more, and remembering your worth.So… grab your Diet Coke 😉, pop in your earbuds, and let’s talk.Friend to friend. Sister to sister.💌 Email me anytime: sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com🌐 Visit my website: sharonlamarcoaching.com

You’re doing everything right—but still single. You’ve prayed. Stayed faithful. Attended BYU. And yet… no husband. No temple sealing. No timeline that makes sense. You sit in church surrounded by couples and families, wondering where you fit—and if you even matter. You’ve heard the talks. You strive to keep the commandments. Tried to stay hopeful. But deep down, you can’t shake the ache: 🌀 Did I miss my chance? 🌀 Am I broken—or worse, forgotten? 🌀 What does this mean for my exaltation… and about my worth? If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not crazy. You’re not broken. And you’re not alone. Welcome to The Single LDS Woman—a podcast for women like you who are navigating the complicated, often painful reality of being single in a family-focused church. In this podcast, you’ll find: ✨ Real talk for LDS singles ✨ Faith-based life coaching grounded in LDS doctrine ✨ Mindset tools that actually work (no toxic positivity here) ✨ Honest conversations about chastity, loneliness, worthiness, and eternal marriage I’m Sharon Lamar—a certified life coach and faithful member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I didn’t get married until I was 52. I know the questions that keep you up at night. I’ve lived the waiting, the wondering, and the quiet heartbreak. But I also discovered something life-changing: You can stop waiting to be happy and still be faithful. You can build a life you love—even while hoping for something more. And most of all, you can trust God and trust yourself again. 💡 In this podcast, I’ll teach you how—with proven faith-based tips and tools, self-coaching strategies, and a reminder of who you really are. Whether you’re never married, divorced, widowed—or not even LDS but still feeling all of this—this podcast is for you. Because this isn’t just about your relationship status. It’s about reclaiming your self-confidence, living happy now even while wanting more, and remembering your worth. So… grab your Diet Coke 😉, pop in your earbuds, and let’s talk. Friend to friend. Sister to sister. 💌 Email me anytime: sharon@sharonlamarcoaching.com 🌐 Visit my website: sharonlamarcoaching.com

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