Have you ever tried to connect with your stepkids, only to feel like everything you say somehow makes things worse? If conversations keep blowing up - or you're walking on eggshells trying not to mess things up - this episode is going to hit close to home.

We're breaking down how to communicate with your stepkids in a way that builds trust instead of triggering shutdowns, power struggles, or rejection - and why so much of the advice stepmoms are given actually makes things harder.

In Today's Episode, We're Talking About:

• Why connection has to come before correction - and how discipline too early can backfire

• The most common communication mistakes stepmoms make (and why they lead to pushback)

• What to say when your stepkid says something that cuts deep, like "you're not my mom"

• How to approach conversations differently with younger kids vs. teens so they feel safe, not pressured

• Stepfamily Circle Membership – A supportive community for stepmoms who want help navigating conversations with stepkids, partners, and exes - without losing themselves in the process. Inside, you'll find coaching, real-life examples, and space to practice these conversations so you're not guessing anymore.

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