In this episode, Alicia shares actionable strategies for navigating difficult conversations with your stepchild. From finding the right time to approaching sensitive topics with empathy, you’ll learn how to handle those awkward moments with confidence and grace. Whether you’re discussing rules, feelings, or family dynamics, this episode will help you build trust and create open, meaningful dialogue with your stepchild.

Key Takeaways:

• Why timing and empathy are crucial in difficult conversations with stepkids
• How to create a safe space for open dialogue
• The importance of being patient and respecting boundaries
• Tips for making tough topics feel less intimidating

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In this episode, Alicia dives into a common struggle many stepmoms face: doing all the “mom” things but not getting the recognition or credit for it. As a stepmom, it can feel emotionally draining to pour your heart and energy into your stepkids, only to be seen as “just” the stepmom.

Alicia discusses the disconnect between the work you’re putting in and the lack of acknowledgment, especially when your partner and the ex are in constant communication. Even in the most amicable co-parenting situations, it’s hard not to feel like an outsider. This feeling of being undervalued can make you feel less than and emotionally drained.

Throughout this episode, Alicia shares how to manage these emotions, why your role is important, and how to reclaim your confidence as a stepmom. Learn how to handle this identity issue with grace, find recognition within yourself, and embrace the love you give your family, even when it doesn’t come with the “mom” title.

Takeaways from this episode include:

• Understanding the emotional toll of doing the "mom" things without the credit.
• How the constant communication between your partner and the ex can make you feel like an outsider.
• Tips for reclaiming your worth and embracing your role as a stepmom, even if you’re not "the mom."
• How to avoid burnout and feel validated in your role within your blended family.

If you're a stepmom who has struggled with feeling undervalued or out of place, this episode is for you. Remember, you're not alone, and your role matters – even if it's not always recognized.

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In this candid episode, Alicia dives deep into the heartache and humor behind that gut-wrenching moment when your stepchild says, "You're not my mom."She unpacks the emotional roller coaster that comes with blended family life and shares practical tips to help you navigate those painful moments with grace and resilience.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Understanding the Impact:
  Discover why the words “You’re not my mom” hit so hard—even when they’re less about you and more about the child’s own internal struggles. Learn how grief, identity confusion, and unrealistic ideals play into these hurtful remarks.
• The Emotional Fallout:
  We explore how rejection affects your self-esteem and the common emotional triggers that make these moments so challenging. You’re not alone in feeling like every “no” feels personal.
• Survival Strategies:
  Get actionable advice on how to handle these situations without taking the sting too deeply. From maintaining consistency in your role to setting healthy boundaries and celebrating small wins, these tips are designed to empower you and build trust over time.
• Self-Care & Resilience:
  When emotions run high, self-care becomes essential. Alicia shares her favorite self-care practices and remind you why looking after your mental and emotional well-being is non-negotiable—especially in the chaos of stepmom life.

Why Listen?

If you’ve ever felt the sting of rejection or questioned your place in a blended family, this episode is your go-to guide for reclaiming your power and finding the strength to keep moving forward. Listen in as we break down the tough stuff with a blend of empathy, practicality, and a healthy dose of humor.

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• Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments or through our community. Your story matters, and together we can turn pain into progress.

Resources mentioned:

Defining Your Stepmom Role

30 Activities to Connect with Your Stepkids at Any Age

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In today’s episode, we’re tackling a big one—happiness. More specifically, how YOUR happiness is an inside job, even when stepfamily stress is trying to bulldoze its way into your peace. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are at the mercy of the ex, your stepkids, or the never-ending co-parenting drama, this episode is for you.

Alicia breaks down:
⁃ How stepmoms unknowingly give away their power and happiness
⁃ Three practical ways to take back control (without the guilt)
⁃ Why boundaries, mindset shifts, and self-care aren’t selfish—they’re survival
⁃ How to stop letting external stress dictate your mood
⁃ Why community and support make all the difference

If you’re ready to stop letting stepfamily chaos control your emotions and reclaim your peace, hit play now. And if you need support? The Stepmom Side Community is where you belong. Let’s do this together!

🎧 Listen now and take back your power!

Resources & Links:

➜ Join The Stepmom Side Community
➜ Need 1:1 coaching? Let’s work together!
➜ Grab my freebie 4 Steps for Healthy Boundaries

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What happens when a stepmom decides to leave her relationship—but she’s deeply connected to her stepkids?

This is a heartbreak that no one talks about. Today, Alicia is diving into:
How to break the news to your stepkids
Whether you should stay in contact after the breakup
How to deal with the overwhelming guilt and sadness
Healthy ways to cope and move forward

Leaving a relationship when stepkids are involved adds layers of pain, guilt, and uncertainty. But here’s the truth—you can love them and still choose what’s best for your well-being. In this episode, Alicia breaks down exactly how to navigate this difficult situation with clarity and care.

🎧 Tune in now for real talk, tough love, and strategies to help you through.

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In this episode, Alicia is tackling one of the most frustrating issues many stepmoms face: what to do when your partner isn't stepping up with their kids or your "ours baby." It's hard when you feel like you're doing it all on your own, especially when your partner's involvement with their stepkids or shared children is lacking.

First, Alicia dives into the common reasons why dads may hold back when it comes to stepping up for their stepkids. From co-parenting guilt to emotional distance, she discusses the underlying reasons and how it affects the entire family dynamic. You'll get practical advice on how to cope with these challenges, including how to open up conversations with your partner and set clear expectations to ensure you're both on the same page.

Next, Alicia shifts the focus to the emotional struggle dads might experience when it comes to bonding with the "ours baby." From guilt over their other kids to fears about disrupting the family dynamic, we'll break down why dads might hold back and offer actionable steps to help you both connect with your newborn while ensuring the other kids feel supported too.

This episode is all about empowering you to cope with these struggles, strengthen your relationship, and ultimately find peace in your family dynamic. If you're tired of feeling like you're carrying the weight on your own, this episode is for you!

Listen now and get the strategies you need to feel more supported and connected with your partner and kids. And don't forget to join the waitlist for Resentment to Relief: A Stepmom's Guide to Letting Go at aliciakrasko.com/relief.

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Welcome to another episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast! In this episode, Alicia dives into a tough but important topic: what to do when your partner doesn’t back you up as a stepmom. If you’re feeling unsupported, frustrated, or like you’re handling everything on your own, you’re not alone. Alicia shares actionable advice to help you navigate this challenge and start feeling more supported and confident in your role as a stepmom.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to recognize if your partner isn’t backing you up (and why this might be happening)
• The importance of setting clear boundaries and being assertive about your needs
• How to find a community of stepmoms who truly get it and offer support
• Why seeking outside help, like a counselor or stepmom coach, can be a game changer
• Practical steps you can take today to feel more supported and connected

Whether you’re struggling with co-parenting, feeling isolated, or just need some practical advice, this episode has you covered. Alicia breaks down real, actionable steps that will help you reclaim control over your role as a stepmom and build a stronger partnership with your spouse.

Don’t forget to:

• Join The Stepmom Side Community for ongoing support and guidance
• Rate, review, and subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode!
• Share this episode with other stepmoms who might need a little encouragement today

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• The Stepmom Side Community: www.aliciakrasko.com/community
• Schedule a coaching session with Alicia: www.aliciakrasko.com/coaching
• Get on the waitlist for Alicia’s new course, "Resentment to Relief": www.aliciakrasko.com/relief

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Feeling overwhelmed by the demands of stepmom life? In this episode, we tackle the relentless cycle of burnout and share practical strategies to reclaim your peace. From setting boundaries to finding your support system, this episode will help you take the first steps toward a calmer, more confident life. Plus, discover how connecting with like-minded stepmoms in The Stepmom Side Community can transform your journey.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why stepmom burnout happens and how it impacts your well-being.
• The emotional and mental load stepmoms carry and how to lighten it.
• Four actionable steps to break free from the overwhelm.
• How finding a supportive community can make all the difference.
• A personal invitation to join The Stepmom Side Community for real-time support and validation.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join The Stepmom Side Community
• Podcast: How Your Expectations Set You Up for Failure
• Download Free Resources for Stepmoms

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In this episode, Casey McGuire Davidson, a life sobriety coach, shares her personal journey with alcohol and its profound impact on her relationships, parenting, and well-being. Casey discusses the societal pressures and stigmas surrounding alcohol consumption, especially for high-achieving women and mothers, and how "mommy wine culture" perpetuates harmful coping mechanisms. She opens up about her struggles with drinking, the resentment it created in her marriage, and how quitting alcohol led to a more peaceful home, stronger boundaries, and greater self-awareness.

In this episode:

• Alcohol’s biochemical effects on cortisol, dopamine, and serotonin, and how these contribute to anxiety, mood swings, and dependency.
• How quitting drinking fosters improved communication, emotional stability, and self-care routines.
• The challenges of navigating societal norms around drinking, especially for mothers juggling work and family responsibilities.
• The transformative power of sobriety in creating authentic connections and reclaiming personal peace.

Casey also provides actionable tips for anyone considering taking a break from alcohol, emphasizing the physical and emotional benefits of even short-term sobriety.

About Casey:
Casey McGuire Davidson is a Life & Sobriety Coach and the host of the Top 100 Mental Health Podcast, The Hello Someday Podcast for Sober Curious Women. As an ex-red wine girl who spent 20 years climbing the corporate ladder while holding on tightly to her love of wine, Casey’s passionate about helping busy women stop drinking and create lives they love without alcohol. Her work has been featured on Good Morning America, CNN, NPR, HuffPost and The New York Times.

Connect with Casey:
www.hellosomedaycoaching.com
Free 30-Day Sober Guide
The Sobriety Starter Kit Course
Free Masterclass Take A Break From Drinking With These 5 Secrets
The Hello Someday Podcast

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Welcome to the first episode of the year! In this episode, Alicia shares how choosing a single word for the year can set the tone for success, clarity, and peace in your stepmom journey. Her word for the year, Intentional, is all about making purposeful choices in time management, relationships, work, and self-care. She also invites you to reflect on what you want your year to feel like and walks you through practical steps to choose your own word.

Plus, Alicia introduces her upcoming re-release of her course, Resentment to Relief: A Stepmom’s Guide to Letting Go, designed to help stepmoms release heavy emotions and reclaim joy.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The power of picking a word of the year and how it can guide your decisions.
• How being intentional can transform your relationships and boundaries as a stepmom.
• Simple steps to identify your word for the year and align it with your goals.
• Details about Alicia’s course and how it can help you achieve peace and confidence.

Resources and Links Mentioned:

• Get on the waitlist for Resentment to Relief: A Stepmom’s Guide to Letting Go: aliciakrasko.com/relief
• Follow Alicia on Instagram for more stepmom tips and inspiration: @AliciaKrasko
• Join The Stepmom Side Community: aliciakrasko.com/community

Don't forget:
Start your year with purpose and clarity! Choose your word for the year and share it with Alicia on Instagram. Don’t forget to join the waitlist for Resentment to Relief at aliciakrasko.com/relief.

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