The Recalibration

#112 Why Over-Control Costs Your Team and Your Peace


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You’ve been praised for being steady — but at what cost? This episode reclaims leadership as deeply human and offers the internal permission to lead without armor, proving compassion doesn’t compromise outcomes.

What if your humanity is the very thing that makes you trustworthy?

This episode challenges the quiet narrative that to lead well, you must leave parts of yourself behind. We dismantle the pressure high-capacity humans feel to suppress emotion, downplay softness, and equate vulnerability with weakness.

You’ll learn:
 – Why image-driven leadership fractures identity
 – How vulnerability expands trust and cohesion
 – What Brené Brown’s leadership reveals about true strength
 – Where faith, humanity, and excellence intersect
 – How to stop leading from protection and start leading from presence

We also revisit Episode 31, “The Soft Strength of Self-Trust,” to reinforce this truth: your humanity isn’t a liability. It’s your leadership advantage — when rooted in aligned identity.

Today’s Micro-Recalibration:
“Where am I equating vulnerability with weakness?”
Notice where your armor is louder than your presence. Lead from alignment, not defense.

Leadership Recalibration:
You don’t have to trade humanity for outcomes.
When leadership is recalibrated from presence — not pressure — everyone wins.
The results remain. The burnout doesn’t.

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