Before you invest in another camp, showcase, or private lesson, ask yourself: Is my daughter building her own path—or am I paving it for her?

In this episode, Susan helps you spot the difference between “wannabe ballers” (kids walking the golden road their parents paved) and “budding ballers” (athletes laying each brick of their journey themselves). You’ll learn the six key signs that show your athlete is ready to own her recruiting process—and what to do if she’s not there yet.

This is a reality check for parents who want to support their daughters the right way: by handing them the bricks, not building the entire road.

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction to NXT VB Podcast

03:00 – The two kinds of athletes: wannabe vs. budding ballers

05:30 – Why parents need to stop paving the golden road

09:30 – Six things to see before investing in recruiting

10:00 – #1: She watches college volleyball

10:45 – #2: She thrives in competitive environments

12:30 – #3: She’s not afraid to watch herself play

16:45 – #4: She’s open to visiting college campuses

20:00 – #5: She’s achieving her potential in the classroom

23:15 – #6: She’s excited about her future

26:30 – The reflection moment for parents

28:15 – When to pull back and let her lead

29:30 – Introducing Recruit Ready Launch

33:00 – Why clarity comes before commitment

34:15 – Final takeaways and encouragement for parents

Connect with Susan:
Check out the website: www.nxtvb.com
Follow on Instagram + TikTok: @hey.susank

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