September 19, 2025

173: The Purpose Mapping Blueprint: Escaping the Golden Hamster Wheel with Craig Filek

58 minutes

In this episode of the Modern Man podcast, Ted Phaeton and Craig Filek delve into the concept of purpose mapping, a framework designed for high-achieving midlife men who feel unfulfilled despite their success. They discuss the journey of self-discovery, the importance of community, and the challenges men face in seeking help. Craig shares insights on navigating the second mountain of life, the role of fatherhood in personal development, and the barriers that prevent men from pursuing their true purpose. The conversation emphasizes the need for connection, the significance of understanding one's purpose, and the transformative power of bold communication.

Takeaways

Purpose mapping helps men find clarity in their lives.

The journey of self-discovery is essential for fulfillment.

More money does not equate to happiness.

Fatherhood is a powerful catalyst for personal growth.

Men often feel lost after achieving traditional success.

Community and connection are vital for men's well-being.

The second mountain represents a deeper purpose in life.

Overcoming fear is crucial for personal development.

Men need to embrace vulnerability to seek help.

Clarity in purpose can reignite passion and drive.

Chapters

01:00 Introduction to Purpose Mapping
03:57 The Journey of Self-Discovery
06:32 The Purpose Mapping Process
09:37 Exploring the Shadow Self
12:23 The Importance of Connection and Community
15:21 Navigating the Second Mountain
18:07 The Role of Fatherhood in Personal Development
20:41 The Map of Psychological Wholeness
23:00 Personal Reflection and Vulnerability
27:00 Practical Examples of Purpose in Action
31:00 Defining a Personal Purpose Statement
35:00 The Role of Purpose in Longevity and Fulfillment
42:00 Distinguishing Purpose, Vision, and Mission
43:00 Overcoming Barriers to Taking the Leap
46:00 The Danger of Complacency and the Need for New Challenges
48:00 How to Access Purpose Mapping Resources
51:30 The Transformative Power of Fatherhood
53:30 Recap
56:00 Final Encouragement and Call to Action