Fit Mess: Health, Wellness, and Mindset in the Age of AI

177. Overcoming Negative Self-Talk: The Power of Internal Validation


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​​The concept of validation is something we all seek, consciously or unconsciously. We often rely on external sources to validate our self-worth and boost our confidence. However, what if we told you that the key to achieving personal growth is through internal validation? In today's world, where social media plays a significant role in our lives, it's easy to get caught up in seeking validation from others. We measure our self-worth by the number of likes and comments we receive on our posts, but is it healthy? In this episode, we discuss why external validation can provide a temporary boost to our confidence, but it's not sustainable in the long run. It's crucial to shift our focus towards internal validation, which means validating ourselves through our own standards, beliefs, and values. Internal validation involves acknowledging our worth, strengths, and achievements. It's about recognizing that we are enough and not seeking validation from others to feel better. When we rely on external validation, we give away our power to control our emotions and let others determine our self-worth.

  Key Takeaways:

  •  Effort and self-reflection are necessary for the journey toward internal validation.
  • Identifying negative self-talk and challenging beliefs are essential steps toward internal validation.
  • Practicing self-love is a crucial aspect of achieving internal validation.
  • Embracing vulnerability and being kind to ourselves are important components of the journey.
  • Celebrating even the smallest successes is key in achieving and maintaining internal validation.

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