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On this week's episode, the following are discussed in order

• Intro (0:00) 
• Would you get a spouse's name tattooed? (0:28)
  • IF she cheats on me I feel like I gotta crash out (1:40)
  • Your relationship may be doomed once you put that ink to skin (4:00)
• Online dating (5:27)
  • Less stigmatized than previously but it has its own problems (5:40)
  • Easy to have unrealistic expectations online (6:06) 
  • Lots of women who are currently pregnant online dating (6:56)
    • How do you have the time to date new people while pregnant? (7:18)
• You can't police someone's relationship with the parent of their child (8:18)
•  Being currently pregnant while online dating is kinda a red flag (8:50)
  • Maybe the priority should be focusing on your healing
• Could you be in a serious relationship with a single mother? (10:15)
  • A step-parent loves their partner so much they CHOOSE to raise and provide for a child that they aren't biologically their own (10:35)
  • You have to be involved in the child's life to seriously date a single  parent and there's going to be potential to step on people's toes (12:10)
  • A single parent isn't going to have a fully flexible schedule  (13:10)
• Kids should be the priority BUT... (14:30)
  • You aren't the same person with your kids that you are without (16:33)
  • I still want to be the priority / most important thing occasionally (18:42)
  • Vacations aren't as feasible due to needing a babysitter / having to bring the rugrat along for the trip (19:59)
• A kid will either make you a better person or a worse person but you won't be the same (22:35)
• Nemo lived in annononymonimity (22:25)
• Should your standards change after having a kid? (25:00)
  • Your baby daddy wasn't like that and you choose to have his ki
  • How you gone hold me to a standard you don't hold anyone else to (25:50)
  • You SHOULD want to improve your life / raise you standards due to a bad experience (26:15) 
  • It's frustrating to feel like you're being punished for the previous person's transgressions (26:45)
• Personality may not fully shine through via online communication (31:12)
  • If someone doesn't know you well a message can be misinterpreted much easier via a text (32:05)
  • It's very easy to fail due to input delays (33:00)
• What is game and your limitations of it?
  • It's hard for me to decide if I'm interested in your romantically (35:48)
  • Do I measure up? (36:16) 
• I'm a bad flirt - Treble (37:29) 
  • I can't turn it up a notch past compliments (39:04)
  • Women love subtlety and hints (39:20)

Outro (45:76)

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On this week's episode (after a long hiatus) the following topics are discussed in order

• Intro (0:00) 
• What do you do when you feel like you're treading water (0:40)
  • Change your routine (1:12)
  • Change your perspective and or Get a laugh 
  • Critical to make sure your relationship w Happiness isn't substance-dependent (3:10) 
  • Building good habits is a key (operate off muscle memory in times of crisis) (4:00) 
• Slow down: You going so fast that you aren't considering what's on the horizon (6:18)
  • Is that a byproduct of today's (convenience-based) society? (6:30)
  • So focused on the destination you miss out on  enjoying the journey (8:10)
•   Yall flexing for the optics? (9:15) 
  • Fronting for the internet (anybody can look rich (10:30)
  • Go touch Grass! (10:55)
  • Companies will sign anybody if they make money off it so yall hating people into a bag (12:20) 
  • Is society pressuring you to feel like you got it or are we just insecure? (13:50)
• Money isn't everything (14:55)
  • Goal is to live comfy but not striving for riches (15:07) 
  • Pressure to provide on a modest income (15:50) 
  • Those w an empty cup  don't care about what sacrifices you gotta make to fill it long as their thirst get quenched (16:58)
  • What good is the money if you won't spend it ever? (18:40) 
• Are you the same person in real life that you are online? (20:04)
  • My morals don't change on the internet 
  • Some people can't be themselves online so they don't fumble the bag (20:28)
  • People feels things in the moment then have a change of heart later(21:10)
• Tales from hitting the bottle/ Blame it on the goose got me feeling loose  (22:30)
  • Treble first time tasting liquor 
  • Treble first time throwing up off the liquor (25:15)'
  • Jimmy first time tasting liquor (35:25) 
  • Jimmy first time throwing up off the liquor (37:18)
  • Do you feel pressured to "keep up" when drinking? (38:23)
  • Not good at turning down drinks bought specifically for me (41:00)

Outro (46:06) 

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The following topics are discussed during this episode: 

• Commit to the Bit ( How far will you go for a laugh)?
• In order to hurt my feelings I gotta care about your opinion 
• Memories
  • If I said it out loud I will remember it vs Forgetting things you said 
  • People remember the most obscure things 
  • Storytime Things you remember saying  and are embarrassed by to this day
• Height 
  • How does it feel to be under 6 foot tall as a Man 
  • Curved bc of height 
  • Getting your knees done is crazy
  • The thing you lack isn't the only thing holding you back (you can overcome your circumstance) 
  • Body Alterations are scary 
  • You only get one body so you should take care of it 

• Jokes 
  • Kids are ruthless to when it comes to jokes
  • Try to avoid making fun of things that people can't change 
  • Someone loves you just the way you are 
  • Would you date a woman who snorts when she laughs?
  • Could you date someone who can't dress? 

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This week's eppisode is focussed on homophobia, and the following stories and points were made: 

• Toes to suck or not to suck em (0:00)
• Homophobia (2:15) 
  • Accidentally attending a Drag Show (9:00)
  • Going out the way to be an ally (another drag show story) (10:40)
• Not being a bigot went a long way (5:20)
• The Gay Cousin got treated differently by the Family  (4:00)
  • Witnessed the treatment first hand (8:30)
• The word gay is being used as an adjective to express their displeasure with things again and that's not cool by any means  (16:45)

• Don't understand homophobia (17:50)
  • What you do in your bedroom is your business (18:40)
• Religion ain't an excuse to be homophobic (18:58)
  • People pick and choose when to abide by their religious doctrine (19:08)
  • Folks be throwing stones from inside a glass house (20:00)
  • (22:45)
• Do whatever you want to do as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else (20:30)

• Homophobia in Media
  • Until recently being Gay was considered taboo and never on screens yet people were still gay (23:20)
• Folks act like being gay is contagious (25:32)
• What kinda cologne you got on? is an off limits question (26:52)  
  • He ain't read the Heterosexual handbook (28:10)
• People fear the unknown (29:15) 
  • "You one of the good ones" (29:34)
  • Nah you just ain't been around enough people from that demographic (30:28)
• Biggotry ain't okay BUT at least you can see the other differences (32:40)
• People don't do things that make them question their beliefs (33:46)
• Homie flipped the script with the quickness when he got left out (35:55)
• Story about the thirst trap that caught the wrong fish (38:08)

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In this week's episode, the following topics are discussed in order

• Are you telling your friend their significant other is cheating? (0:35)
  • If you give the cheater a chance to come clean they will undermine your credibility with your friend to try and save themselves (1:50)
• If your friend finds out they getting cheated on and you knew then they are very likely to be mad at you for not sharing that information with them (4 :08) 

• Man tells his friend that the friend's wife is cheating on him and the husband kills his wife.   (5:20)
  • Who is responsible?  and would you feel guilty if you told and those were the results that occurred? 
  • Everyone in that situation lost (7:30)
• Other people's business
  • Bystander tried to save a woman in a domestic incident and the boyfriend shoots the intervener and then the couple drives off  (10:04) 
  • Bystander intervenes to save a woman from abuse and the victim took the abuser's side and turned on the savior when the police came (12:50)
  • I would love to think I'm the type of person who will do the right thing but sometimes you gotta worry about self-preservation (13:38)
  •  Went downtown saw a shady situation and wanted to save the day but also didn't want to get involved in a situation we can't get out of (15:27)
  • The rules of the game change depending on who is playing (16:50)
  • The situation may have been innocent but it's hard to determine that out of context in a split-second interaction (17:58)
• All money ain't good money (19:00)
  • It may not be worth the effort to obtain it (if it costs your peace of mind it's too expensive) (21:30)
  • For the right bag, there are some things I will sell out for (23:10)

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In this week's episode, the following topics are discussed in order 

• What are the Rules for reusing an outfit (0:00) 
  • What about situational outfits (ie Tux for a wedding) (8:10) 
• Would you rather get stood up for a date or ghosted after it? (11:05)
  • Is it a waste of time if you enjoyed yourself? (11:30)
• What are your rules on "ghosting people" (12:55)
  • Some people can't be let  down gently (13:10)
  • Sometimes you can't meet in the middle (14:30)
  • Is "keeping it real" free If it costs your peace of mind (15:30)
• I can't talk to you every day (17:50)
  • I can't be your only friend  (18:50) 
  • How important is predictability in your friendships (20:25)
• The severity of being stood up depends on how early you realize it (22:20)
• How soon do you cut your losses romantically/ decide you not compatible? (24:10)
• Outro (26:33)

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In this episode, the following topics are discussed in order 

• How many dance moves do you have? (0:25)
  • I let the cougar down on the dancefloor (2:15)
• Is there a proper way to approach a woman in public? (4:00) 
  • Are you a DM slider? (6:10) 
  • The game is persistence? ( 6:50) 
• What does it mean when you label yourself a vibe?  (10:00)
  • The context of the vibe changes the definition (10:44)
• Opinion on the tweet "Men don't leave good women but every woman thinks she's a good person" (13:55)
  • Everyone thinks they're the hero in the  story (14:18)
  • People judge others on the outcome of their actions but themselves based on their intentions (15:11)
• How important is financial literacy in a romantic partner? (19:35)
• Does pretty privilege still exist?
  • It can get you in the door, may not get you the job but you'll at least get an interview if you're attractive (23:30)
• Cancel Culture (23:59) 
  • The severity of your offense changes our perception of the canceling (24:30)
• Hulk Hogan's adult video (27:12) 
• The concept of cancel culture is a good idea (28:28)
• Top Stan Fanbases (29:34)

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In this episode, the following topics are discussed in order 

• What's the wildest piece of footwear you wore to take the garbage out (0:50)
  • If you ain't crockin you ain't rocking (2:30) 
• What if was you had a roasting session greatest hits (4:10) 
• Bank Overdraft fees (5:55)
• Ever inherited an L? (6:46)
• Petty Icks 
  • Overly Positive people make Jimmy Sick... (11:10)
    • The more aware I am the less happy I am  (13:00)
• Today I don't have the energy so I won't  (15:40)
  • Purposely avoiding people to protect your energy (16:12)
  • You came outta obligation and killed the whole vibe (17:15)
  • I'd rather you remove yourself than disrupt the atmosphere (18:10)
• Attachment issues/ social dependency (19:15)
• If you respect them enough you will respect their boundaries (22:22)
• Having pre-requisite convos will save you some heartache (23:08)
• Going into a relationship deceiving your partner is setting it up for failure (25:05)
  • Alternatively if you set the expectation then that's on them 25
• More often than not people don't go out their way to hurt us they really just doing what's best for them not thinking about us (it's not personal) (27:10)
• Telling the truth isn't an excuse to be mean (28:34)
• You gotta verbalize your feelings to allow people to correct their actions (30:10)

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This week's episode discusses the following in order

• (Loudly) Moving in silence (0:35) 
• Clout is a drug (1:45)
• Celebrating your small victories (3:30)
  • Find little stuff to look forward to as you await the big dubs (4:35)
• Mental health is less taboo today than it was yesterday (6:00)
  • The logic doesn't translate (I got it out the mud so should you) (9:55)
• Don't let feeling like a burden increase your struggle/ block your help (11:20) 
• Check on yo people (15:50)
• I may not give you my kidney but I'll look online for one for you (17:59)
• Mental Health among Black Men (19:57)
  • Some of the issues are preventable ( 20:30)
• Friendly Obligations (don't put each other in compromising situations) (22:28)
• Religion and Mental Health (amongst Black folks) (24:00)
• Meatloaf (26:56)
  • Ketchup Meat and Leftovers (27:12)
  • Generational Trauma got passed down via the dinner table? (29:30)
• Clap it up for mental health (Drink Champs homage) (31:12)
• Outro (32:20)

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In this week's episode, the following is Discussed in Order 

• Quick Gift giving tip 

• A tangent on purses and women's bags (1:54) 
  • Do Designer (brands) define you? (3:48)
  • How often do women switch purses? (8:40) 
• Is the priority quality goods/ or life experiences? (12:12)
  • Don't do it for public perception (13:40)
• Gift Giving advice Revisited for the third time (14:24) 
  • Buying makeup ain't worth the hassle gang (16:02)
  • Does picking your own gift devalue it? (19:40)
• Realize yall running different races to avoid going out sad (20:50
• How do you handle toxic (but really just unpleasant) people? (24:00)
  • Is being uncertain of yourself considered toxic? 28:37