"If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail." Woman will plan out their career, their education, even their love life. You can plan every part of your life but you can not plan out love. It can be draining to have the ability to control every part of your life but not being in control of who loves you back.

The thing about beef is that you're allowing someone to live rent free in your head, A whole dedicated space in your mind at no cost of living... You sound like a homeless shelter. Its time you start sending out eviction notices. ASAP!

Are the self proclaimed "Nice guys" really who they say they are?.. What is the difference between a good man and a fuck boy? And are "good women" similar in a way to the self proclaimed nice guys?...Tap in as we do a deep dive on this topic that continues to make rounds in black dating circles.

The contradiction of wanting a man that has a lot of money but having too much pride to ever let the sentence "Can I have some money?" ever leave your lips??... Tap in as we dive into the logic that most women on the dating market live and die by.

"We went from picking cotton to picking presidents"... This week Jody and Lou recap on the events of the presidential election.....while Nevada is STILL counting.

With so few qualified to lead, who do we have to look up to as role models in the black community? Are these shoes too big to be filled by just anybody due to our profound public figures that came before us?.. Tap in with us as we curate the conversation.

We don t know whose needs to hear this but don't ever let anyone convince you that you're too old to do something. Dreams have no deadline and it's never too late to be what you "might have" been. Keep setting new goals for yourself and continue to chase your dreams, they can't run forever.

What's your type? Are you attracted to a nice Darkskin with pearly white teeth? maybe the hood type does it for you? Maybe you're a chubby chaser that likes a little meat on the bone? - Whatever you're into, we all tend to stick within a category of people we tend to fall for time after time. Tap in with us as we figure out what does it for us and why.

Are you a humble flexer or a full blown stunna?- We all took a couple of L's, its apart of life, but its a part of life that majority of people never reveal. Living in the age of social media, people tend to only post their wins but conceal their losses, share your ups but never you're downs.. in this episode we talk about it all.

It's time we establish some universal rules for the dick appointment. Here in this episode Jody and Lou give out some pro tips(hoe tips) and breakdown the art of dropping off or receiving dick, Without the headaches and heartbreaks.