In this episode, we’re delving into a common challenge for blended family couples: decision-making and problem-solving. Whether managing kids’ expectations, negotiating with an ex, or facing the pain of being a “trapped teammate” or “stranded stranger,” disagreement and differing perspectives can create tension and keep you stuck.

We’ve been there ourselves, and we share relatable stories, including a meltdown at the mall over a swimsuit and how it almost derailed our unity. Plus, we unpack practical strategies that have been game-changers for us and the couples we coach. 

We believe every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making and problem-solving that helps them stay united and avoid confusion, pain, and disconnection.  Grab a coffee, sit back, and let’s tackle this together.

You'll Discover

• How to avoid falling into the "trapped teammate" or "stranded stranger" dynamic.
• Three key “DON’TS” that will safeguard your relationship from unnecessary conflict.
• A powerful brainstorming hack to make decisions and solve problems as a united team.
• How to manage decision-making pressures from kids and ex-spouses.
• Practical tips to stay connected and strengthen teamwork in tough moments.

Resources from this Episode

• Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron and Nan Deal]
• Episode 21:  What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience
• Episode 22:  One Simple - and Romantic - Way to Combat Being Stranded or Trapped 
• Episode 23:  How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being Connected
• Episode 24:  What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure?
• Episode 95:  Do You Dread Negotiating Schedule Changes with your Ex - Try These 5 Practical Tips
• Episode 13:  How to Parent as a Team in Your Blended Family
• Episode 83:  4 Everyday Favoritism Traps that Dishearten Kids in a Blended Family

Ready for some extra support?

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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