Blended Family Breakthrough

204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting: Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1)


Listen Later

Stepparenting raises many questions: What’s my role? How involved should I be? What if my stepkids don’t accept me? 

It’s easy to make wrong turns without even realizing it.

In this episode, we’re delving into four key facets of parenting: meeting practical needs, providing support, teaching life lessons, and delivering discipline. We'll uncover the unique roles and responsibilities of a stepparent regarding each facet and define what's appropriate and inappropriate.

If you’re feeling frustrated, disconnected, or unsure how to navigate parenting in your blended family, this conversation is for you! 

We’ll share best practices, real-life examples (yes, including our own!), and strategies to help you stay in your lane while building healthy bonds with your stepkids and strengthening your parenting partnership.

You'll Discover:

  • Why stepparents should focus on connection before correction 
  • How to support your stepkids and meet practical needs without overstepping or experiencing resentment 
  • The best approach for building genuine connection, trust, and respect with your stepkids 
  • Why delivering discipline too soon can backfire—and what to do instead
  • A simple but powerful strategy to create a strong parenting partnership with your spouse and reduce tension in your home

Resources from this Episode:

  • Episode 47. How to Like Your Stepchild Even When You're Feeling Frustrated and Annoyed
  • Episode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Stepkids
  • Episode 9. A Surprisingly Simple Strategy for Bonding with Step-Kids
  • Episode 29. What is a Loyalty Bind and What Can You Do About It?
  • Episode 102. 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2)
  • Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's Kids
  • Episode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy)
  • Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary Chapman
  • Stepparenting: Keeping it Sane by Charles Fay, Ph.D.
  • In Their Shoes by Lauren Reitsema
  • Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal

Ready for some extra support?

Connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here: 

Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community?  Click this link:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Blended Family BreakthroughBy Mike & Kim Anderson

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

186 ratings


More shows like Blended Family Breakthrough

View all
FamilyLife Today® by FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Today®

1,694 Listeners

Focus on Marriage Podcast by Focus on the Family

Focus on Marriage Podcast

1,854 Listeners

The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness

21,273 Listeners

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

804 Listeners

ClutterBug - Organize, Clean and Transform your Home & Life by Clutterbug

ClutterBug - Organize, Clean and Transform your Home & Life

1,999 Listeners

Oprah's Super Soul by Oprah

Oprah's Super Soul

31,970 Listeners

The Virtual Couch by Tony Overbay LMFT

The Virtual Couch

650 Listeners

Calm Parenting Podcast by Kirk Martin

Calm Parenting Podcast

1,401 Listeners

Fierce Marriage by Ryan and Selena Frederick

Fierce Marriage

4,234 Listeners

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast by FamilyLife Podcast Network

FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

334 Listeners

You Are Not Broken by Kelly Casperson, MD

You Are Not Broken

920 Listeners

Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark by Turning Point USA

Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark

12,359 Listeners

The Best of You by Dr. Alison Cook

The Best of You

785 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,524 Listeners

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast by Civility Media

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

7,829 Listeners