Why being too available kills attraction (and it's not about playing games) The unconscious message you send when you're always accessible How to build a life that naturally creates healthy boundaries 5 practical strategies to shift from "too available" to "appropriately interested" The mindset shift that changes everything in your dating life Why the right men will step up when you step back Mentioned in This Episode: The importance of maintaining your own identity after divorce Why humans value what they invest in How to watch effort vs. words in dating Resources: www.pattymartinlifecoach.com  
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Why being too available kills attraction (and it's not about playing games) The unconscious message you send when you're always accessible How to build a life that naturally creates healthy boundaries 5 practical strategies to shift from "too available" to "appropriately interested" The mindset shift that changes everything in your dating life Why the right men will step up when you step back Mentioned in This Episode: The importance of maintaining your own identity after divorce Why humans value what they invest in How to watch effort vs. words in dating Resources: www.pattymartinlifecoach.com @manifesting.infaith Join of Facebook Group If this episode resonated with you, please take 30 seconds to rate and review the podcast. It helps other women find these conversations!

Why being too available kills attraction (and it's not about playing games) The unconscious message you send when you're always accessible How to build a life that naturally creates healthy boundaries 5 practical strategies to shift from "too available" to "appropriately interested" The mindset shift that changes everything in your dating life Why the right men will step up when you step back Mentioned in This Episode: The importance of maintaining your own identity after divorce Why humans value what they invest in How to watch effort vs. words in dating Resources: www.pattymartinlifecoach.com&nbsp; 
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I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord.. For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best. Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter. Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts. Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings!

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I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord..For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best.Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter.Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts. Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings! You Are Enough 5-Day Workshop - Sign up here! Pre-register for the upcoming women's retreat in Orange County, CA - Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist Join our Facebook group - Dating After Divorce

I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord.. For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best. Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter. Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts. Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings!

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