Dear Future Husband

We may tire of hearing dating referred to as a "waiting period" but that's often what we feel in the in-between. This is one of those messy, challenging topics that if we can embrace it and learn from it will do exceedingly more in and for us than we can yet see. 

Our guest, Ebie Hepworth, shares her testimony and the powerful lessons and gifts that waiting in the hard seasons has given her. Whether you are waiting on your future spouse or have been believing for a miracle—there is a way to wait, or in some instances suffer, WELL.

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

It's a no-brainer that we want to help our husbands become their best when we're married, but have you ever thought, "Could I be doing something to aid him now even before we're together?"

The power of prayer transcends time and understanding. You can begin praying for your future husband's character now with the key verses in this episode!

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

"Most people don't know they're in a toxic relationship until they're out of it." That's a scary reality! If you've been in an emotionally or physically toxic relationship, or want to learn how to avoid falling into one, our guest, Ashley Henriott, shares how to spot the warning signs and make a change!

There IS better ahead for you. What will you choose today to make that next action, relationship or behavior different? Find Ashley's new book, "Confidence Is an Inside Job" here: https://www.amazon.com/Confidence-Inside-Job-Conquer-Self-Doubt/dp/0593601017

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Countless obstacles and temptations are coming after our men's sexuality today. They're constantly teased and pulled into areas of compromise or confusion from pornography to unfaithfulness. But what should we do, criticize, and turn away? Not on my watch.

Your marriage is worth fortifying, and if the enemy is fighting to taint your (future) husband's sexuality then let us fight even harder to bless it!!

Use this prayer over your spouse or future spouse to come alongside him and ask God to steward his sexuality in a way that betters him and benefits you both!

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

We long to be married, but what legacies from your marriage will last long after you say I do? As wives, or future wives, we want to make sure we don't just find a husband but cherish him without forgetting the gift our spouse is!

Before her husband, American Sniper Chris Kyle, passed away, Taya and her husband created patterns and principles that led to a legacy of love. Now she helps other couples grow closer together and overcome life's hardest obstacles.

To learn more about Taya and her foundation, visit https://www.tackf.org/

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Are you allowing your heart to properly heal after a heartbreak?

We're often tempted to brush this pain off or push it under the surface... maybe buried beneath a pint of ice cream. Be it a breakup, loss, longing, or a traumatic event, we HAVE to give our hearts what they need when we're hurting.

In this episode, Stefanie Rouse and I discuss how addressing pain-points authentically and timely allows us to grow through the hurt and into hope.

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

Prayer is powerful. Why wait to bless your marriage and your spouse until after you tie the knot?

With so many distractions, options, and attacks against our men today, we have the powerful honor of interceding on their behalf. Let this prayer guide you in aiding his direction and believing that the call on his life is esteemable and achieveable!!

Ladies, you can pray this over your husband if you're married, or over your future husband if you haven't met him yet.


Prayer for His Direction—
Lord, I pray over my future husband. Be an anchor and a guard all around. Cover and ground him. Lead him not into temptation nor distraction. I know that you have written eternity on his heart and direction in his purpose. Show him how to walk steadfast in the direction You have set before him. Illuminate Your Word to him afresh. Leading him specifically to what he needs to read today to be able to know how to step tomorrow. I pray he will be supernaturally immovable until he senses where You want him to go. Give him eyes to see what You have illuminated before him, and confidence to believe that in You, he will achieve it. God, I ask you to sweep away any passivity or worldliness that can thwart his efforts or steal Your glory. I pray as he commits all his work unto You, that You will establish him and give him favor amongst men. Thank you for his ability, thank you for his talents, and thank you for giving him clear direction.

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

"Where are all the good Christian guys?" is a question we hear often. 
I brought my husband, Arden Bevere, onto the podcast to answer this question and offer advice on how you can interact with high caliber men and what you can do to enhance your likelihood of recognizing the right guy when you meet him—IF you haven't already!

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

There's no shortage of birth horror stories... I'm sure you can easily think of one you've heard or a horrendous scene from a movie now😬. But could it be possible that in our God-given marriages, we can have God-led births?? Our guest, Karen Welton, of Pain Free Birth suggests we should start to ask ourselves now, "What if it is?"

NOW is the time to prepare for labor! Even if you're single and not actively trying to have children yet, this episode is so inspiring to what God can do when we believe He can move through us and helpful to alter how we view birth in America.

In her many teachings, Karen shares spiritual and practical advice on how to understand what your body is doing in labor and the best advantages and practices for maximizing oxytocin and decreasing pain! Find them all (including a free class for husbands) on her website: https://painfreebirth.com/

Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com