Dear Future Husband

Could dating be wasting your money? 🫨

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Anthony O’Neal to talk about money, dating, and preparing for marriage with wisdom.

From spending too much on dates to recovering from past financial mistakes, Anthony shares practical advice for singles who want to build a healthier relationship with money before marriage. They also discuss investing, breaking generational cycles, stewarding what God has given you, and why your financial choices now can shape the future you’re praying for.

Whether you’re dating, waiting, or hoping to build a strong foundation for marriage, this conversation will help you think differently about money, purpose, and preparation.

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What if the story you never would have chosen became the place where God met you most deeply?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Alexa PenaVega for a heartfelt conversation about faith, surrender, marriage, motherhood, and trusting God through the seasons that don’t make sense.

Alexa shares how she came to know Jesus, what God taught her through her first marriage and divorce, how she met her husband Carlos, and the ways God has carried their family through both beautiful and heartbreaking moments, including the loss of their infant daughter.

This conversation is honest, hope-filled, and deeply encouraging for anyone learning to trust God with their past, their future, and the parts of their story they never expected.

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Heartbreak... No one's friend or favorite word. It can leave you questioning your worth, your future, and even whether love is worth pursuing again. But there's a purpose past the pain and a joy set ahead!

In this episode, we talk about the reality that rejection isn't always fair—but it doesn't have to define your story. We'll explore how God can redeem even the deepest pain, use it to shape your purpose, and restore hope without hardening your heart. If you're healing from disappointment or wondering whether to believe in love again, this conversation is for you.

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Christian dating can be fun, honest, and full of surprises.

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere brings back the single men and women’s panel for Part 2, where they play dating icebreakers, answer real questions, react to each other’s responses, and explore what actually helps Christian singles connect.

You’ll hear funny first impressions, honest thoughts on chemistry, what makes someone easy to talk to, and how men and women approach dating differently.

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Will They Be Blinded By Love or Blind-Sided by the Others' Answers?!

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere hosts our first blind-dating panel, where single men and women answer honest questions about attraction, standards, communication, and what they’re really looking for before meeting face-to-face.

From funny first impressions to surprisingly honest reveals, this conversation opens up the dating questions Christian singles are often thinking but rarely ask out loud.

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What if your waiting season is revealing where your trust truly lies?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with worship leader Rita Springer for an honest conversation about singleness, surrender, longing, and refusing to settle.

Rita shares what it looks like to stay desperate for Jesus, not marriage, when the wait feels longer than expected. Together, she and Christian talk about unmet desires, the temptation to lower your standards, and how to trust God when the timeline still has not changed.

If you’ve ever wondered how to keep hoping without becoming desperate, this conversation will remind you that Jesus is not a backup plan. He is the prize.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if men are not as hard to read as women think?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Jeff Bethke for an honest conversation about men when it comes to dating, attraction, and communication. Together, they unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations, why men need to open up rather than hide behind “guarding their heart,” and how women can avoid overanalyzing mixed signals in dating.

Bethke shares a male perspective on the questions so many women are asking: 

• How can you tell if a man is interested? 
• Why do some men seem emotionally guarded? 
• What qualities should actually matter when you’re looking for a husband? 
• And are some standards helping you discern wisely, while others may be keeping you stuck?

If you’ve ever wondered, “Is he interested, or am I reading this wrong?” this episode is for you.

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Are you choosing from peace, or is loneliness choosing for you?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Ashley Hetherington for an honest conversation about singleness, dating, discernment, and becoming the woman God is forming you to be.

Together, they talk about why singleness is better than the wrong relationship, how to recognize the difference between a Christian guy and a truly godly man, and why faith talk is not the same as fruit. Ashley shares wisdom from her new book, The Sowing Season, helping women see this season not as a punishment or a pause, but as a time to sow, grow, heal, and prepare with purpose.

If you’ve ever felt like the last single friend, wondered if you’re being too picky, or been tempted to settle for an almost-godly guy, this conversation will encourage you to stop wasting your waiting and start trusting what God is growing in you.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What do single women really wish men understood about dating—but rarely get asked directly?

In Part 2 of our Single Women’s Panel, the conversation gets even more honest. This time, men get to call in and ask the questions they’re usually too scared, hesitant, or unsure to ask women face-to-face.

Christian is joined by three single women representing different seasons of life—in their 20s, 30s, and 40s—for a raw, thoughtful, and faith-filled conversation about dating, relationships, pursuit, communication, expectations, and what women are truly experiencing in today’s relationship culture.

From what makes a woman feel pursued to what men misunderstand about singleness, standards, emotional maturity, and readiness for marriage, these women share their real reflections with honesty, grace, and vulnerability.

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What are single women really thinking about dating, waiting, men, marriage, and the season they’re in?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with a panel of single women from different seasons of life — women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s — for an honest conversation about modern dating, singleness, frustration, hope, and what they’ve learned along the way.

They talk about the questions many women are carrying quietly:

• Why does dating feel so complicated? 
• What should women do with disappointment? 
• How do you stay hopeful when waiting feels longer than expected?
• And what does it look like to trust God with your future while still being honest about your desires?

This conversation is thoughtful, funny, vulnerable, and deeply encouraging for any woman navigating singleness, dating, or the tension between contentment and longing.

Whether you’re single, dating, waiting, healing, or simply trying to understand this season better, this episode will remind you that you’re not behind, you’re not forgotten, and your story is still being written.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.