Dear Future Husband

Valentine’s Day can make singleness feel louder than usual. But what if this season isn’t about waiting — it’s about preparation?

In this special episode, I share 3 ways to intentionally prepare for marriage as a single woman who desires a godly relationship. We talk mindset shifts, dating with clarity, emotional readiness, and becoming the woman you’re asking God to bless.

You’ll also hear a live Q&A where I answer honest questions about dating, standards, and how to stay hopeful.

This conversation was recorded during our first-ever live taping at a Galentine’s celebration — a room full of women choosing growth in their single season.

Because you’re not just single.
You’re in preparation.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What do you do when following Jesus puts tension in your closest relationships, especially with your family?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Sazan Hendrix to talk honestly about navigating faith, love, and obedience when the people you love most are not on the same page. Raised in a Middle Eastern Kurdish family, Sazan shares how unexpectedly falling in love with a Christian boy changed her life forever.

We touch on topics such as:

• How do you honor your parents when they do not share your beliefs?
• How do you walk in obedience without hardening your heart or burning bridges?
• The cost of choosing faith and the pain of misunderstanding, and the slow, faithful work of God in redeeming relationships.

This episode is for anyone navigating love across different backgrounds, carrying the weight of family expectations, or praying for God’s hand over their future marriage. It is a reminder that when you trust God with your love story, He is able to honor your faith, redeem what feels fractured, and write a story that is far more beautiful than you could plan on your own.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Women carry a powerful key to connection—but most have no idea they even have it.

In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to unpack how men and women are uniquely wired by God—and how misunderstanding those differences can quietly sabotage our relationships.

In this episode, we explore:
1. Why conflict so often goes wrong between men and women
2. How our natural wiring shapes the way we give and receive love
3. The hidden cycle that fuels misunderstanding and emotional distance
4. The often-overlooked power women carry for deep connection—a power many don’t even realize they have

This conversation brings biblical truth, practical wisdom, and eye-opening insight that will challenge the way you see relationships, communication, and your own influence within them. Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this episode will help you navigate relationships with greater clarity, grace, and purpose.
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Find Dr. Emerson's new book, Lightbulb Moments in Marriage, here: https://www.amazon.com/Lightbulb-Moments-Marriage-Perspectives-Successful/dp/1400352169

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

In our second conversation, with my father-in-law and renowned author, John Bevere, he confronts the spiritual roots shaping modern relationships. We explore how sin nature influences attraction, why God’s design for marriage clashes with today’s dating culture, and how compromise—often mistaken for chemistry—can quietly cost us covenant.

Drawing from biblical truth and traditional Jewish courtship, John challenges common dating patterns and unpacks why so many Christian women (and men) find themselves choosing the wrong partners again and again. This episode calls listeners to move from emotion-led decisions to discernment rooted in truth.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What does it really look like for a man to take responsibility for his healing?

In this episode, Laterras R. Whitfield of Dear Future Wifey shares his journey from infidelity to integrity and how owning his past became the turning point that prepared him for a second chance at love.

Rather than blaming circumstances or others, Laterras chose a harder path. He took accountability, did the internal work, and became the kind of man a future wife could trust. This conversation explores what real healing requires, why integrity must be built before marriage, and how responsibility shapes the husband a man becomes.

Whether you are single, dating, married, or rebuilding after divorce, this episode challenges us all to forgo outsourcing our healing, and rather, to believe and become redeemed and transformed.
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How can YOU begin preparing for your future marriage too? Pre-order the "Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal" and "Future Husband, Present Prayers" book today and start praying intentionally for the spouse you are believing for—and becoming! 

(Both Launch February 10—Pre-order for exclusive gifts)

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Maybe you know you want to get married someday—but no one has really talked to you about what actually makes marriage work.

I’ve been there. Before I got married, there were things I wish someone had told me—things that would’ve saved me confusion, unrealistic expectations, and a lot of learning the hard way.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 things I wish I knew about marriage before getting married. Whether you’re single, engaged, newly married, or years in, these insights can help you build a healthier, stronger marriage—now or in the future.

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Have you ever felt like waiting is taking too long—or that dating should be easier by now? Have you caught yourself comparing your love story to others and feeling disappointed?

In this episode, Rachel Awtry shares powerful insights from her new book on why we can—and should—be cultivators of joy in every season of life. We talk about how choosing joy, even in the waiting, can transform not only our outlook but our outcomes.

Whether you’re single, dating, or simply wrestling with unmet expectations, this conversation offers encouragement, perspective, and hope for wherever you are right now.

Get Rachel's book, "Love Your Life (Even When You Don’t Like It All the Time)" here: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Your-Life-Even-When/dp/B0DJY765XF

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What do you do when God answers your prayer… and you’re afraid He might take it back?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with Mia Fields and her husband, Joren Dunnavant, to share their love story—the waiting, the surrender, and the moments when trusting God felt risky. From placing an answered prayer back on the altar to learning how to hold a promise loosely, this conversation speaks to every woman who has ever questioned God in the middle of waiting.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you can trust what God gave you, this episode is for you.

As you listen, you may resonate with the prayers and questions shared throughout this conversation. Christian recently released two resources for women in seasons like this—the Future Husband Present Prayers Book and the Dear Future Husband Journal—created to help you pray, reflect, and trust God with your love story, even when faith feels fragile. (Pre-Order Both Here: https://christianbevere.com/future-husband)

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Your prayers for your future husband matter more than you think!
In this episode, my husband shares how the prayers I prayed over him while I was single impacted his heart and our marriage. If you’ve ever questioned whether your prayers make a difference — especially in a season of waiting — this conversation will remind you: they do!

We're giving you a preview of the other side of YOUR prayers—a testimony of the power of a praying (future) wife! We'll touch on: longing and surrender, to meeting “the one,” to how those early prayers shaped our relationship. If you’re single, dreaming, praying, or simply hoping with faith — this is for you.

If you want to go deeper into prayerful preparation for marriage, I wrote TWO resources for you: the book to guide you, "Future Husband, Present Prayers" & the companion prayer journal, "Dear Future Husband". Both lead you to pray intentionally, grow spiritually, and prepare your heart for the love God has planned.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

James 4:2 says, “You have not because you ask not,” and that verse hits differently when you think about the desire to be married. If you have felt shy, unsure, or even a little guilty about asking God for a spouse, you are not alone! In this episode, we talk honestly about why that happens and what this verse can mean for your dating life and your faith.

Now, for those of you who have been praying for your future husband and want guidance, structure, and deeper support along the way, I have news I am so excited to finally share! I took the heart behind my own Husband’s Bible and turned it into something you can hold. Actually… two somethings!!

As part of the Dear Future Husband community, you get the very first opportunity to pre-order Future Husband, Present Prayers Book and The Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. These resources are created to help guide your prayers with clarity, direction, and bold expectation and give you a beautiful space to record your prayers and even create a meaningful gift for your future spouse.

EXCLUSIVE: Pre-Order yours below!
Future Husband, Present Prayers: https://rstyle.me/+sJxs3oFbPhgbsTb2QCRzrQ
Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal: https://rstyle.me/+A0KV7G_H8lt_6klK8nY8UQ

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.