Dear Future Husband

“What if the future you’re praying for is waiting on the decisions you keep avoiding?”

For the third time on Dear Future Husband, we sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud alongside Christian Bevere to talk about his new book, Your Desired Future — and talk honestly about the patterns, beliefs, and boundaries (or lack thereof) that quietly shape the direction of your life.

We unpack how your habits, mindset, and emotional health determine your future. So, if you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or tired of repeating the same cycles, this episode will challenge and encourage you!

Dr. Cloud gives practical advice on:

• why people stay stuck
• how to stop sabotaging your future
• the connection between faith and responsibility
• and how healthy relationships start long before marriage
• and MORE

Your future isn’t found by accident — it’s built by the decisions you make today.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if your waiting season is actually where God builds the foundation for the relationship you’ve been praying for?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with DeAngelo & Whitney Moss for a powerful conversation on waiting well, dating with purpose, and preparing for the marriage you actually want.

After waiting 12+ years to intentionally date, DeAngelo & Whitney share how God used singleness to shape their vision, character, and calling before bringing them together. They discuss becoming the spouse you desire, trusting God’s timing, and why preparation matters more than pressure.

They also reveal their brand-new app, The Dating Project, designed to help singles meet online in a more compatible, purpose-aligned way. This episode will challenge the way you think about dating, singleness, and God-led relationships.

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

“Long-distance relationships never work”… unless they do. 👀

For the launch of Season 7, Christian and her husband, Arden, share the real story behind their long-distance relationship — what challenged them, what kept them connected, and why they’re actually grateful they dated from far away.

They open up about the habits, communication, and lessons they learned while dating across the country that helped shape their relationship and strengthen their foundation.

So, tune in if you’ve ever wondered whether long distance can actually last, how to build trust from miles away, or what makes some couples survive the distance while others don’t.

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

Part 2 is here—and the conversation gets even more real. 🎙️

We’re back with the Single Guys Panel on Dear Future Husband—and this time, we’re answering YOUR voice memo questions… no edits, no filters.

We get into the questions everyone’s thinking, but few are asking:

• Do men actually like Botox and “high maintenance” women? 
• Why aren’t men approaching women anymore? 
• And what are the absolute WORST dates they’ve ever been on?

Nothing is sugarcoated. The guys react in real time, share personal experiences, and give brutally honest perspectives on modern dating, attraction, and what’s really going on behind the scenes.

If you want to understand how men think in today’s dating world… this is the episode you don’t skip. 👀

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if the confusion you’ve felt in dating… actually makes sense?

In this episode, we’re doing something a little different. I sat down with three single Christian men in their 30s and asked them the questions we’ve all been wondering—the ones that keep us up at night, overthinking texts, mixed signals, and everything in between.

• What are they really thinking while dating?
•  What actually matters to them?
•  And why does it sometimes feel so confusing?

They didn’t hold back.

This conversation is honest, thoughtful, and full of perspective that might just shift the way you see dating—and men. If you’ve ever wished you could get inside a man’s mind and finally understand what’s going on… this episode is for you!

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if everything you’ve been told about submission, dating, and gender roles… isn’t the full story?

In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Pastor Darren Whitehead from Church of the City for an honest, biblical conversation that challenges assumptions and calls believers back to truth.

Together, they unpack what biblical submission really means—moving beyond cultural extremes and misunderstandings to rediscover God’s design for mutual honor, strength, and order in marriage. Is submission about silence and control, or is it something far deeper and more powerful?

They also dive into dating through a biblical lens, asking the hard questions many avoid:

• How do you truly evaluate someone for marriage?
• Are you choosing based on feelings, or fruit?
• What does wisdom—not culture—say about compatibility?

This conversation tackles the often controversial topic of gender roles in the Bible. What did Scripture actually intend? Where has the modern church gotten it right—or wrong? And how do we live this out in a way that reflects both truth and grace? Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

In a world of casual dating and mixed signals, etiquette might be the most underrated advantage.

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I’m joined by Alison Chepernick from @ElevatedEtiquette to talk about the art of dating well. From how you present yourself on a first date to the subtle social skills that create genuine connection, Alison breaks down why etiquette is far more than knowing which fork to use—it’s about confidence, respect, and emotional intelligence.

We dive into how to maintain high standards without becoming rigid, the small behaviors that instantly elevate your presence, and the hidden life skills etiquette teaches us that make dating smoother, more intentional, and actually enjoyable. Alison also shares practical tips on navigating modern dating with grace, setting the tone for meaningful interactions, and showing up as your best self—without losing authenticity.

If you’ve ever wondered how to balance confidence with kindness, keep your standards high while staying open, and create dates that feel effortless and memorable, this conversation is for you.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if the way you handle money right now is preparing — or disqualifying — you for the marriage you’re praying for?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I sit down with Rachel Cruze from Ramsey Solutions to talk directly to single women about stewarding your finances with wisdom and intention, plus "investing" in your future marriage.

We discuss:
󠁯•󠁏Why your single season is the best time to build wealth
󠁯•󠁏Money red flags in dating
󠁯•󠁏How debt affects future marriage
󠁯•󠁏Why married couples should share money
󠁯•󠁏And more

If you want a strong, unified marriage one day, it starts with how you steward what God has already placed in your hands.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What if singleness and marriage were never meant to be opposing seasons — but invitations to the same deeper goal?

In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Lisa Harper shares her personal story of not choosing singleness — and discovering that Jesus meets us fully in the life we didn’t plan. Together, we explore the tension between longing for marriage and learning contentment, and unpack what Paul the Apostle truly meant when he wrote that singleness is a gift.

Lisa opens up about grief, growth, unmet expectations, and the steady faithfulness of Christ. We look at the full context of 1 Corinthians 7, gently challenge cultural narratives, and reframe what it means to walk closely with Jesus in every season.

Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

"I never thought I could love again… until I did."

In this tender and honest episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Courtney Pray Duke shares what it’s like to open your heart after you were certain it was closed forever. After losing her first husband, love felt impossible — even unimaginable. The grief was heavy. The future felt rewritten. And the idea of loving another man felt both distant and complicated.

Courtney vulnerably walks through the emotions no one prepares you for — the guilt, the fear, the questions, and the quiet hope that slowly returns. She talks about honoring her late husband while stepping into a new relationship, learning that moving forward doesn’t mean moving on, and discovering that the heart can expand in ways we never expect.

If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll never love like that again,” this conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t erase your past — it makes room for a future. And sometimes, love finds you when you least expect it.

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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.