IT'S THE 21ST EPISODE OF THE 21ST SINTURY!!!!!! This episode was so fun for me to plan and record. It felt like you guys were so much more apart of it. I answered 21 questions that you sent in. I talk about my sex life, my fears, the weird stuff, and even give tips and tricks for going downtown. Thank you so much for being apart of this journey with me. Enjoy!

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Sinners! Join me this week to hear about how casual sex ruined my self esteem. My sophomore year of college I was a one night stand queen. I created a reputation for myself of being a party girl and basically a sure thing for the guys. It was fun for a while, but listen to find out why it wasn't anymore. PLEASE, I can not emphasize this enough, practice safe sex. Condoms, contraceptives, all the things. I convinced myself these guys liked me for me when in reality I was the easiest girl in the room and they knew that. Enjoy!

Sinners! It's time to talk about the self proclaimed "nice guys." News flash: they're not actually nice. They're manipulative and overall not great people. They know what to say and what to do to reel you in. I read texts from an ex from the beginning of our relationship. He said all the right things to get me to fall for him. If they call themselves a nice guy and their personality revolves around how nice they are...run. Women don't own men a single thing in exchange for being treated with respect. Enjoy!

TW//Sexual Assault and Rape

Hi Sinners. Please do not listen to this episode if the trigger warnings are sensitive for you, or use your best judgment while listening. November of 2018 I was sexually assaulted by a Sigma Nu brother. I am choosing to share this story now due to a recent contest conducted by instagram account App State Chicks. They hosted a march madness equivalent for fraternities called "Frat Madness." Sigma Nu was the winner. I'm sick and tired of seeing fraternities glorified and continuing to get away with their behavior. They need to be held accountable and victims and survivors need to be protected. Greek life is a toxic breeding ground for all kinds of heinous activities and I'm tired of pretending like everything's fine. Things need to stop being swept under the rug and frats need to face consequences and be held responsible. I'm sick of seeing survivors have to live with their trauma and be silenced while their assaulters get away with it.

TW // Sexual assault

In August of 2021, my best friend, Rachel Scott, was sexually assaulted by a coworker. This is her story. She has uploaded Youtube videos and the links to part one and part two will be below. When I first spoke out to spread awareness on her behalf, I was threatened with a lawsuit. This is for every survivor everywhere who has been forced into silence. This is for every survivor who was told it was their fault. For every survivor who spoke up and was met with resistance. This is for you.

Part One: https://youtu.be/vdR-Zl7t6lY

Part Two: https://youtu.be/NejBoC2LJb8

Alright Sinners listen up. This week I'm giving you all the bitch boy knowledge. I break down what is a bitch boy, examples of bitch boys and how to spot them, and most importantly....how to fend them off. And I'm guessing my answer isn't what you're thinking it is. Bitch boys are mutating and multiplying like rabbits in todays world. From the brads and chads, to daddy's money, to the alpha male beta bitch boy...I cover them all. Enjoy.

Hello my sinners. Unfortunately, this week's episode is a short one due to my raging kidney infection. SO! Part one covers why you should and/or shouldn't have sex on the first date. The potential issues that may arise with 1st date sex, the joys and wonders of it, and a feminist rant for ya. Although this episode is a short one, you're still getting quality content and I encourage my ladies to take back the power. Men don't think twice about being considered easy...so why should we? Enjoy sinners and stay tuned for part two.

*Trigger warning: my suicide attempt 5:10-7:36*

*Trigger warning: sexual assault 36:53-43:00*

Sinners...it happened. I finally moved. To good 'ole Nashville, Tennessee. I spent my 23rd birthday and the music city with my mom and incredible roommates. This episode is an interesting one to be honest. I serenade you all with some 50 Cent, 2 Chainz and more. I open up and share a very dark part of my past and why my birthdays are weird for me. Oh...and I talked some big shit this week. Some BIG shit. Tune in to hear what had me so fired up this week. I also share an audio clip of my hotel parking lot breakdown after saying bye to my dad. I love you all. Enjoy some insight into my life.

Please tell me you guys got the reference in the title...lions, tigers, and bears oh my! Moving on! Meet my best friend, Lauren. We talk about all things sex toys. Where to buy them, how to bring up using them to your partner, best toys for "beginners," oh...and we watched porn together. Our sex toy research lead us to the good 'ole Hub to learn how some of these things work. And boy did we see some things. I hope this episode helps you feel more confident and equipped to bring up using sex toys to your partner! Sex positivity is going to be a massive element throughout this show so "let's talk about sex *toys* BAY BAY!!! Xoxo

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