Today we are continuing our discussion around people pleasing.  Last week we talked about some of the roots of people-pleasing.  And I think most of us who struggle with it think we are just being good people.  We say “yes” to things because we want to be helpful and we want to be liked.   However, there are some real consequences to being a people pleaser. 

Beyond the obvious physical, emotional, and mental impacts of long-term people-pleasing, I am not sure we stop to think of the bigger picture….  the less obvious consequences of being a chronic people-pleaser.  We like to think it just means we are being a nice person who serves others.

The problem is, people-pleasing only wins us very temporary and superficial peace.  When we continually adapt our beliefs, messaging, and choices to gain the approval of others, no one will truly know who we are.  We may actually lose track of who we are.  More importantly, no one will know WHOSE we are.   In truth, people-pleasing may be a strong indicator that we may not TRULY know WHOSE we are….  We may not be walking in a true heart knowledge of who we are in Christ.    When we are truly walking in that knowledge, we are set free to experience something far more fulfilling than the superficial approval of man.     

I hope this episode blesses you and that you will continue to join me on this journey toward balance, peace, and freedom to live the abundant life you were called to.

Xoxo,

Tanya

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