this episode is about somebody with BPD how they live in the past and during an argument sometimes we'll bring up the same things that hurt them in the past episode will help you to try to overcome those repeated hurts and try to make them feel more loved by validating their feelings and attacking the subject and apologizing and explaining because they're bringing it up because it hurt them in some way that you never validated their feelings of how bad it hurt them in affected them but they can bring it up years later sometimes even 30 years later

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