Aligned Vitality | Midlife Leaders, Perimenopause, Holistic Health, Natural Wellness, Weight Loss, Balance Hormones, Fatigue, Brain Fog

234. No More Pretending: How to Lead with Courage, Not Performance


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In this episode, we’re confronting a trap that many high-capacity Christian women leaders fall into — leading from performance instead of presence. If you’ve ever felt like you have to prove your worth in the boardroom, overdeliver to feel safe, or play a role just to hold it all together… this episode is for you.

We explore how people-pleasing, perfectionism, and fear of being misunderstood drive us to perform rather than lead authentically. You’ll walk away with a renewed perspective on what real courage looks like in leadership — and practical steps to break the cycle of pretending so you can lead from identity, not insecurity.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How performance-based leadership quietly leads to burnout and resentment

  • The connection between people-pleasing and fear of rejection

  • What it means to lead from identity, not image

  • Faith-based mindset shifts to cultivate courage

  • Reflection prompts to help you move from pretending to presence
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    I hope this episode blesses you!

    Xoxo,

    Tanya

     

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