What should we think when our prayers don’t get answered the way we hoped?

In this episode of Kitchen Table Theology, Pastor Jeff and Tiffany continue the series on Practical Theology and take a closer look at why some prayers seem to go unanswered. They explore biblical reasons, the role of timing, the reality of spiritual warfare, and how God’s will shapes His response to our requests.

What We Discussed

[01:33] Introduction to Unanswered Prayer
Prayer is essential, yet many believers struggle when their requests don’t seem to reach God.

[03:07] Placing Limits on God
How our expectations, deadlines, and demands can hinder the effectiveness of prayer.

[04:34] God’s Timing vs. Our Timing
Why God may delay in answering until hearts, circumstances, or other people are ready.

[05:37] Wrong Motives in Prayer
James 4:3 warns us that selfish or lustful motives can block God’s answers.

[08:01] The Role of the Holy Spirit
When we don’t know how to pray, the Spirit intercedes for us, aligning our requests with God’s will (Romans 8:26).

[09:09] Spiritual Hindrances
Daniel 10 reveals how demonic forces can resist God’s messengers and delay answers to prayer.

[12:26] When It’s Not for Our Good
Sometimes God withholds what we ask because it would harm rather than help us.

[13:41] Examining Our Hearts
Why we should evaluate our motives, trust God’s wisdom, and remove anything that may hinder prayer.

[14:31] A Final Word on Prayer

 A.J. Gordon once said, “You can do more than pray after you have prayed, but you can never do more than pray until you have prayed.”

“God will only give us good things that are in keeping with His will and that contribute to our spiritual wellbeing.” - Pastor Jeff Cranston

Resources Mentioned:  

• Billy Graham. “Why Do Prayers Go Unanswered?” July 2013. Accessed 29 September 2025.

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