**find the video podcast of this episode here: https://youtu.be/qKxfV-IxaSU!**Alisia Young interviews JAC Patrissi, the co-author of Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved (see bio below).JAC Patrissi helps us begin to understand the distinctions among *conflict in a basically safe relationship cycle;*destructive relationships that do not intend to harm but still do damage;*chronic immaturity, and *relationships where a partn...