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Do You Struggle With Snapping, Fighting, or Overreacting in Your Marriage? Here's a Script You Can Use When You're Triggered

Are you ever surprised by how fast you go from calm to reactive? 😤 Maybe you feel blindsided by your own emotions, or you're wondering, "Why did I snap like that?"

In today’s episode, I’m walking you through a simple but powerful reset script that you can use when you or your spouse gets triggered. šŸ’¬ Whether it's something your spouse said—or how they said it—this episode gives you the exact words to say to de-escalate the moment and move toward healing instead of hurt.

We talk about:

  • ✨ Why your reaction is often deeper than the moment

  • šŸ›‘ The simple phrase that can change the tone of your entire marriage

  • šŸ—£ļø A full reset script to use in real-time, even when emotions are high

  • šŸ™ How to pause, pray, and invite the Holy Spirit into your marriage conflict

    šŸŽ PLUS: I share a coaching strategy you can use this week to practice resetting with your spouse, without stuffing your feelings or avoiding the hard stuff.


    šŸ‘‡ Listen now if you're ready to:

    • Stop spiraling in arguments

    • Create safety during conflict

    • Lead your home with emotional maturity and grace

      Let’s transform how you handle those hot-button moments—because you’re not broken, you’re just human. And with the Holy Spirit, there's always hope for healing. šŸ’›


      šŸ“Œ Resources & Links Mentioned:

      • šŸ‘‰ Book a free Christian marriage coaching call

      • Join The Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program

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