Two Disabled Dudes

284 - What Achievement Asks Of Us


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Sean and Kyle dive into “the responsibility of achievement”—what happens when your personal wins start to carry weight for other people.

Sean shares a story from a recent all-inclusive trip to Mexico, where resort staff pointed out that the two wheelchair guys were the most consistent tippers. That sparks a conversation about why they often feel responsible to “represent” disabled folks well in situations like Uber, airlines, and travel.

From there, they unpack:

  • Doing big, visible challenges (bike rides, India, the Niesen Stairway) without feeling like you owe the world the “next big thing.”
  • How seeing someone else go big can give you permission to aim higher in your own way—even if your version looks totally different.
  • The tension between honest vulnerability, toxic positivity, and the risk of sharing hard moments online when you don’t control how people react.

They wrap with a reminder: you don’t owe anyone perfection or constant upward momentum, but you do have influence—and you get to decide what you want to do with it. Plus, thank-you notes to a teammate who made a dry training fun and a longtime friend who opened the door to Sean’s career at Nugget Markets.

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