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29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
Learn What Creates Abandonment Wounds?
Physical abandonment: absent parent, divorce in childhood, death of a parent
Emotional abandonment: parent present physically but emotionally unavailable, neglect
Conditional love: love given only when you performed, achieved, or behaved "right"
How Abandonment Shows Up in Your Dating Life:
Anxious Attachment - You become clingy, need constant reassurance, fear being left
Testing Behavior - You push men away to see if they'll stay (self-fulfilling prophecy)
Settling - You accept breadcrumbs because any attention feels better than none
Hyper-Independence - "I don't need anyone" becomes your armor, preventing intimacy
Moving Too Fast - You rush commitment to secure the relationship before they can leave
Does This Sound Like You?
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know
If you nodded your head to any of these, I'd like to ask you some questions for a research I am doing.
I AM NOT SEELING ANYTHING - I simply want to understand your journey better so I can serve women like you more effectively
If you or someone you know are interested, please send me an email to my email address listed below.
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Learn What Creates Abandonment Wounds?
Physical abandonment: absent parent, divorce in childhood, death of a parent
Emotional abandonment: parent present physically but emotionally unavailable, neglect
Conditional love: love given only when you performed, achieved, or behaved "right"
How Abandonment Shows Up in Your Dating Life:
Anxious Attachment - You become clingy, need constant reassurance, fear being left
Testing Behavior - You push men away to see if they'll stay (self-fulfilling prophecy)
Settling - You accept breadcrumbs because any attention feels better than none
Hyper-Independence - "I don't need anyone" becomes your armor, preventing intimacy
Moving Too Fast - You rush commitment to secure the relationship before they can leave
Does This Sound Like You?
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
You feel incapable of choosing the right man
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know
If you nodded your head to any of these, I'd like to ask you some questions for a research I am doing.
I AM NOT SEELING ANYTHING - I simply want to understand your journey better so I can serve women like you more effectively
If you or someone you know are interested, please send me an email to my email address listed below.
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