2nd Moms Circle for Christian Adoptive Moms

Does your adopted child exhibit fierce independence? Tune into this episode to talk about how this may be connected with their prior early childhood trauma, and what you can do to help them and help yourself in addressing this behavior.

As an adoptive/second mom, you’re invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so. 💓

Does your child or teen tend to overreact with excessive and prolonged drama or explosive behavior? Understanding how trauma affects their ability to calm down is crucial for adoptive moms. Traumatized kids often have hyperactive amygdalas, making it challenging for them to down-regulate from a heightened state and remain calm.

This physiological response means that what seems like an overreaction is actually their brain's way of coping with past trauma. Adoptive moms should recognize that extra time and space are not only helpful but essential for their child's healing process. Providing a safe, comforting environment and practicing patience can significantly aid in helping these children manage stress.

Additionally, incorporating tools like calming essential oils, weighted blankets, or noise-cancelling headphones can create a soothing atmosphere. Staying calm yourself and offering a steady, reassuring presence are vital steps to support your child. Remember, you're not alone in this journey; resources like the "Circle of Second Moms" guided support group are available to assist you. Join the Circle at http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Today (as I’m recording this episode) is my birthday and I decided to give you a present!

When my kiddos were younger I struggled to keep up with all the papers and documentation, and then to find what I needed when I needed it! Enter Trello (No affiliation).

This is an app that lets me get to my information and documentation from my phone or computer so I can add and access it when I need to.

Today I’m sharing a Board Template with you that you can use with your own Trello account. Grab this gift at https://dawnbaggett.com/page/step-1-trello-template-lm-opt-in

As an adoptive/second mom, you’re invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so. 💓

What’s the perfect recipe for your personal success as an adoptive/second mom? Listen to this episode to learn the three components to composing a Mom Mission Statement and why you want to create yours ASAP!

The link to the workbook mentioned in this episode is: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/redefining-success-funnel-1-step-1-lead-magnet-opt-in

As an adoptive/second mom, you’re invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach.

You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so. 💓

I recently learned that 40% of 18 year olds in the US meet the criteria for a mental health disorder. That percentage is undoubtedly even higher among families of our audience of second moms. And a huge source of stress for you. Long-term stress. Dangerous stress. Let’s talk about what you can do on this episode. In this episode I share four simple methods for breaking free from damaging chronic stress and a recovery from its effects.

As an adoptive/second mom, you’re invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach.

This episode takes a look at the reality of PTSD among many mothers who have experienced their own trauma within the context of post-adoption family dynamics.

Adoptive moms are also invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett.

Stress is a big issue for many adoptive families, not only for the adoptive child but the entire family. This episode lists three steps to support an adoptive mom in helping lower the overall stress level by modeling effective ways to address her own stress. Adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett.

Power struggles in post-adoptive families may be similar to others but are often more intense and frequent. I’m Dawn Baggett and in this episode I share a counterintuitive approach for reducing or preventing power struggles with children and teens who experience post adoption attachment challenges. I also offer a free safety plan audit & safety planning guide for second moms. Click here to learn more: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/safety-first For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me.

This episode encourages adoptive moms to do some digging to get to an educational plan that fits the needs of her children & family. One resource shared in the episode is Hand in Hand Educational Consulting run by Brenda Wagenknecht: 520-233-0554

www.handinhandeducate.com Brenda offers listeners a free 15 minute consult.

I also offer a free planning audit & safety planning guide for second moms. Click here to learn more: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/safety-first PLUS For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me.

Today’s episode discusses five lessons I learned about free choice & educational options as an adoptive mom with hidden ways those options may impact our families. While I’m extremely grateful for the freedom of educational choice that we now enjoy in this country, it’s also important to recognize the limits of those freedoms. If safety is an issue for your family, it is THE issue. I offer a free planning audit & safety planning guide for second moms. Click here to learn more: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/safety-first PLUS For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me.