Rare with Flair

3. adding in the “flair:” style & confidence


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hi hello hey, and welcome back!

Our podcast is called Rare with Flair. You hopefully knew that already, but there’s something important about it we wanted to emphasize this week: flair. We chose this name very intentionally because we felt that it fit our brand perfectly: being disabled, but also enjoying living life as women in our 20s. While many of our future episodes will be focusing on the “rare” aspect, we wanted to remain three-dimensional to our audience and talk about things that matter to us, which in this episode, is fashion!

Like many women in their 20s, we love fashion and each have our own defined style. This episode starts with us explaining why we love fashion so much even though we’re legally blind. As we mention, we’ve been stared at our entire lives, so part of why is to give people something nice to stare at! Then we each have fun talking about our own styles in clothes, shoes, jewelry, and even explaining what our tattoos mean to us.

Spoiler alert: growing up disabled not only influences how you function daily, but as we discovered in this episode, it’s also influenced our style preferences. This leads into talking about confidence and when we began to accept ourselves more fully. We talk about fashion faux pas from trying to fit in in middle school, things we may still be a little self-conscious about, and touching on body positivity. Afterward, we answer a listener question, and play a little game of Style This or That where we ask each other questions about our style preferences.

Thank you to all the listeners that have emailed us over the past couple weeks! It’s been lovely hearing all your stories and encouragement. As always, if you have any questions for us that we can answer on the podcast or just want to send us a funny story, our inbox is ready at [email protected]!

Cassandra + Casey showing off their style, 2020
show notes
housekeeping
  • First, just wanted to note that we will be mentioning several brands throughout the show! None of them have sponsored us (…yet 😉 ) but they will be linked below if you’re curious.
  • Cassandra references episode 2 and mentions that she got her guide dog from Guide Dogs for the Blind, the largest guide dog school in the country (since she forgot last time oops).
    • She plugs Guide Dogs for the Blind’s documentaries “Pick of the Litter”, the movie-length version of which shows puppies in their puppy-raising homes (available on Amazon Prime, Hulu, and now Netflix), and a docu-series showing the process when the puppies leave the homes and go to “dog college,” aka formal guide dog training (available on Disney+)
    • Casey jokes about our name and how it sounds a lot like “flare up” which is a common way of saying a chronic illness has gotten worse for a period of time (lol). We will be talking chronic illness in the future so stay tuned for “Rare with a Flare Up” 😉
    • fashion + personal style
      Casey with hair extensions, 2014
      • Casey’s five style words: romantic, vintage, feminine, classic, and whimsical
      • Cassandra’s five style words: bright, feminine, edgy, trendy, unique
      • Casey mentions her love of Peter Pan collars (Wikipedia)
      • Casey brings back the reference from episode 1 of her Doc Marten shoes
      • Cassandra mentions Lilly Pulitzer
      • Cassandra mentions Converse shoes
      • Casey mentions Adidas, Vans, and Keds
      • Cassandra mentions oVertone coloring conditioner
      • Casey mentions when she had hair extensions, so see our photo from 2014 (we’re so little!)
      • Cassandra mentions Neutragena, Sephora, & Bite Beauty for lip color
      • Cassandra and Casey mention their Medic Alert bracelets and we highly recommend them for anyone with a disability or allergy! They could save your life!
      • Cassandra references her permanent ileostomy (read more on our about HPS page)
      • Cassandra mentions Michael Kors
      • Casey mentions the nonprofit Dare to be Rare
      • Cassandra mentions the Five Solas in Christianity (Christianity.com)
      • Cassandra mentions the Taíno people (Wikipedia), the native occupants of Puerto Rico before colonization
      • Casey at the beach, 2020
        Cassandra and guide dog Romana, 2020
        tattoo pictures

        We wanted to share pictures of our tattoos so you all could visualize them after we tried to describe them.

        Casey’s tattoos
        Casey’s first tattoo: treble clef and cross hybrid, 2011
        Casey and her bff Audrey with their
        matching tattoos, 2011
        Casey’s second tattoo: “rare” in Braille, 2019
        Cassandra’s tattoos
        Cassandra’s first tattoo: phoenix with “by faith alone” in Latin, 2017
        Cassandras second tattoo: a potted cactus in honor of her abuela and “I love you lots” in Spanish, 2018
        Cassandra’s third tattoo: a Taíno sun with two arrows, 2018
        Cassandra and older brother Carlos with
        their matching tattoos, 2018
        confidence
        Cassandra wearing an Aeropostale polo, 2009
        Casey sporting “frosty lips”, 2005
        • Casey and Cassandra joke about the cringe-worthy outfits they wore when they were in middle school (enjoy these pictures lol)
        • We both mention: Aeropostale, Hollister, Birkenstock, The North Face
        • Cassandra makes mention of Casey’s adorable skirt from Anthropologie (photo below)
        • Watch Casey’s video on accepting her nystagmus (involuntary eye movement) (YouTube)
        • Cassandra speaks about having white arm hair due to lacking pigment in albinism. For more on albinism, see our about HPS page or episode 1’s show notes.
        • Cass recommends Dollar Shave Club and references ZoomText magnification software
        • Cassandra with some 2000s “layers” and older brother Carlos, 2009
          Casey with more Aeropostale chic and sister Lynley, 2005
          notice Casey’s gorgeous skirt! 2018
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