This week, Dr. Naomi tells Jordana about 8D music and the benefits of “brain flossing.” Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels insecure about who she was 10 years ago, and worries that her new boyfriend will judge her for it. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who suspects that her friend is becoming an anti-vaxxer. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for anxiety around car safety in the neighborhood. And, in our “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, we’re feeling triggered by invasive questions about future babies and friends who don’t Venmo in a timely manner.

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This week, Dr. Naomi shares her recent run-in with the police and the feelings of shame that were activated from it. Our Oversharing comes from an engaged Betch who feels like her fiancé isn’t doing his fair share in their relationship. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener whose religious beliefs around extramarital sex keep interfering with her dating life. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for managing volatile emotions before they spill over into snapping at your loved ones. And we’re feeling triggered by post-Covid wedding jealousy, and miscommunications from strained sibling relationships. 

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This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi reflect on their weekend together, and how to keep pushing yourself emotionally and intellectually. Our Overshare comes from a Betch struggling to maintain her relationship with a negative friend. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who is figuring out how to co-parent with her husband’s ex-wife. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for realizing that your day-to-day stress can prevent you from enjoying the time you can’t get back. And we’re feeling triggered by unexpected carpool drivers and best friends with poor wedding gift etiquette.

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This week, Dr. Naomi tells Jordana about her recent kid-free getaway with her husband, and how meditation helped with reconnecting on a deeper level. They talk about the benefits of shifting your perspective from living each day like it’s your last to living like it’s happening for the first time. Our Overshare comes from a Betch on a healthy lifestyle journey, who feels judged by her friend’s comments when they go out together. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who’s worried that her boyfriend’s family’s rigid naming traditions will affect their hypothetical future son. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for turning an uncomfortable situation into an opportunity for growth. And we’re feeling triggered by family members who try to find loopholes around small weddings, and BFFs who have scheduling conflicts with our bridal dress shopping.

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This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi share their experience as guests on the Tamron Hall show, and discuss the ways that following your peers on social media can affect your mental health. Our Overshare comes from a newlywed Betch whose husband feels obligated to keep every piece of hand-me-down furniture and heirloom his family gives them. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who did the impossible and turned a situationship into a relationship - but her sister won’t let her bring her boyfriend to the wedding. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for the resentment and stress that can manifest when you become the primary caretaker for an elderly relative. And we’re feeling triggered by exes who weren’t the marrying type until they moved on, and getting conned in the TSA line.

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Trigger Warning: This week’s Betchicist deals with the subject of sexual assault.

This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi talk about reframing the way you assess your own life and breaking away from the idea that you’re “too old” to do things. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders why he still hasn’t decided whether or not he wants kids, when everyone around him seems to have it figured out. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a survivor who is struggling to navigate the lingering trauma of their assault. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for the frustrations of homeownership. And we’re feeling triggered by mothers-in-law who exclude us from their funerals and unsolicited advice about weight loss.

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This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi talk about splurging on your family, and learning how to show appreciation even when you receive a gift that you don’t love. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders if it’s her place as a stepmom to critique her partner’s parenting style. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a mom feeling frustrated with family members giving unapproved gifts to her kid. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for managing stress without letting it manifest into a short temper. And we’re feeling triggered by getting left out of Secret Santa, and parents who don’t prioritize our sobriety journey.

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This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi are holding space for the pressures of New Year's resolutions, encouraging everyone to enjoy the moment without the weight. Together, they explain the importance of balancing self-improvement with self acceptance and how a "resolution audit" may be the trick to accomplishing your 2025 goals. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who wonders if she should cut her losses after a surprising relationship renegotiation. Today's Betchecist wants to know if she is the one being dramatic over, what she calls, a family of Grinches. And we're feeling triggered by people who don't say thank you for their gifts and an airline seat debacle that makes you wonder AITA?

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This week, Jordana and Dr. Naomi share their Christmas and Hanukkah traditions. Dr. Naomi explains Netflix’s The Ultimatum to Jordana, and they discuss the “social experiment” model of reality TV dating shows. Then, they announce some exciting updates to the Oversharing: Calm TF Down subscription, coming in mid-January. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who feels like her therapist is giving her permission to give into bad habits. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a happily partnered listener who wonders if there’s a way to catch up with male friends from her past without any accidental romantic overtones. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for mourning the loss of a loved one during the holidays. And we’re feeling triggered by parents who don’t think we’re funny, and aunts who play favorites on Christmas cards.

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This week, Jordana tells Dr. Naomi about her new therapist, and how she’s getting accustomed to her gentle approach. Our Overshare comes from a physically fit Betch who worries that her fiancé isn’t prioritizing his health. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who feels uncomfortable with how a friend handled a financial transaction. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for social anxiety around infertility and other people’s perceptions. And we’re feeling triggered by friends who assign tasks without asking, and friends who make assumptions about our finances behind our back.

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