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September 24, 2020

30 years married - my one tip

11 minutes

Selina Iddon reflects on thirty years of marriage, emphasizing the importance of evolving together in relationships. She discusses the roles of commitment and love in overcoming challenges as a couple. The conversation includes insights into parenting, maintaining core values, and finding balance between personal and joint pursuits. Selina highlights the key elements that contribute to a long-lasting relationship and concludes with her final thoughts.

Over the years I have been countless advice and read lots of stuff on relationships and making a marriage work, even seen games on it and spoken to councillors. After just celebrating my 30 year anniversary with the man I love, the one tip I would give is a takeaway from a conversation from someone close to me when she was reflecting on why her marriage ended. This one thing has stayed with me for 20 years and absolutely has worked for us.

(0:00) Welcome and reflections on thirty years of marriage

(0:58) The importance of evolving together in relationships

(3:29) Commitment, love, and overcoming challenges as a couple

(5:58) Parenting, core values, and balancing personal and joint pursuits

(9:56) The key to a long-lasting relationship and final thoughts

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