A total power exchange with his wife, partner-focused pleasure, and exploring piss play—Steve shares how his 20-year vanilla relationship transitioned into a consciously designed, mutually nurturing connection.

📈 STATS | 40 heteroflexible white male, he/him pronouns, Dominant, monogamous, 24/7 power dynamic, married with kids, works in education, US east coast, into: spanking, cum play, watersports, and his submissive.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Scalding hot baths, outdoorsy adventures, and grounding in himself

06:16 A magnetic spiritual connection with his partner and how they balance their disparate relationship needs

12:17 How a 24/7 dynamic with contracts and monthly meetings helped him connect more fully with his partner

19:59 Protecting mental well-being + preparing safety measures following sub drop and top drop

24:56 CUM PLAY!!!

26:59 Growing up feeling like an outsider with Protestant, Catholic, and Jewish influences

32:43 Condom lessons from his classmate’s nurse mom, detailed anatomical drawings, and watching a graphic sex ed video with his family

37:38 How a book from his grandfather led to his first masturbation session

42:57 Why pleasing his partner is always his focus

44:16 Early masturbation exploration, bedsheet burns and baby powder on private parts

47:49 AOL phone sex adventures with “hot babes” to practice flirting

54:43 Rediscovering his innate confidence through Dominance and plans for writing smut

58:01 Early softcore and R-rated film influences on his sexuality

1:02:53 Making classic movie moves on a first date and his first sexually exciting touch

1:08:33 His first time fingering and revisiting sexy shared memories during sex

1:11:41 An absolute love of blowjobs and navigating his “unreasonable” shameless desire with partners

1:16:41 How a mismatch of communication and sexual needs led to consciously designing a D/s dynamic 

1:23:32 Breaking out of the relationship rut of a rare sexual “rewards” system to embrace explorations like watersports and cum play

1:29:19 Daddy Dom bedtime rituals and his ongoing Domination development

1:34:46 Piss play and watching his partner pee

1:38:14 How a college class helped him talk openly about sex and why he thinks everyone is sexy

1:42:52 Looking forward to progressing as a Dominant, building community, and working through mutual jealousy to ultimately add more play partners

1:48:15 Shared desire for accessible sex ed + teaching that it’s okay to explore and break out of expected “norms”

🤩 TOPICS | Anatomical drawings, AOL phone sex, baby powder masturbation, bed sheet burns, blowjob enthusiasm, body confidence, building community, Catholic upbringing, classroom sex education, communication in relationships, consciously designed relationships, contract-based dynamics, cum fetish, cum worship, Daddy Dom rituals, detailed sex ed memories, Dominant mindset, Dom/sub relationship structure, education and sexuality, erotic book discovery, erotic film influences, exploring boundaries, exploring kinks, exploring new desires, fingering for the first time, fulfilling partner’s pleasure, grounded masculinity, heteroflexible men, hot bath relaxation, intimacy after kids, kink communication, kink safety planning, masturbation memories, mental health in kink, monogamous power exchange, mutual nurturing relationships, outdoor adventures, partner-centered sex, pleasure through service, power exchange contracts, Protestant and Jewish family influences, reclaiming sexuality, relationship transformation, religious sexual guilt, roleplay dynamics, self-acceptance, sexual confidence, sexual exploration, sexual shame release, sex-positive parenting, shared erotic memories, smut writing, spanking kink, spiritual connection in relationships, sub drop recovery, submissive care, teacher kink awareness, top drop awareness, total power exchange, vanilla to kinky transition, watersports fetish, watching partner pee, writing erotic fiction.

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