Bottoming, testosterone, and hiking blowjobs—Nolan shares his love for men, play, and freedom while navigating gender, non-monogamy, and the wild joys of queer sex after transition.

📈 STATS | 33 queer transgender man, he/him pronouns, single, gay, ethically non-monogamous, barber, from Massachusetts, based in California, into: daddies, bottoming, switching, giving oral, licking, biting, spanking, exploring, and hiking.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Curiosity, rule-breaking adventures, and how hiking helps Nolan feel alive

03:16 Affirmations, art, makeup, and the power of direct communication in dating

07:08 Disgusting romance, irresistible invitations, and what makes a perfect date

10:33 When connection feels electric, and how asking great questions leads to trust

14:00 Feeling safe, stating body realities, and using color-coded safe words

17:18 Oral overwhelm, trying to like receiving again, and the joys of ball worship

21:03 Hookups with cis men, trans men, and nonbinary people—plus navigating dysphoria

24:58 Discovering he was trans during a relationship and the transformation of starting T

29:18 Seeing his new anatomy, learning to ejaculate, and having multiple orgasms

33:54 Doggy style revelations, masturbation confidence, and the dominance shift

37:36 Toys, metal wands, dildos, and discovering daddy play and submission

41:03 What he loves about oral, gag reflex struggles, and the beauty of scruffy men

45:08 The sexiness of legs, ears, bellies, and licking with reverence

49:06 Sensations after top surgery, nipple numbness, and relief from unwanted touch

52:25 Gender envy vs. identity, and how loving men helped reveal his own masculinity

56:06 Orgasming in every position, throuple dreams, and riding the wave of poly joy

59:37 His dream pleasure palace: mood lighting, toys, rain, and weighted blankets

1:03:00 Blowjobs on cliffs, tent sex in the rain, and wanting more public adventures

🤩 TOPICS | Adrenaline bonding, adventurous dates, anal play, armpit sex, art as healing, ball sucking, blowjob, body autonomy, car sex, communication in relationships, consent, daddy play, dating, direct communication, discovering trans identity with a partner, dildos, enthusiastic consent, evolving relationships, exes who transition, exploring with cis men, exploring with trans men, face slapping, finding love after transition, gag reflex, gay desire, gender dysphoria, gender euphoria, gender exploration, group sex curiosity, hiking sex, hookup culture in LA, jawlines and eyebrows, kink, kinky sex, makeup and masculinity, masculine presentation, masturbation, multiple orgasms, nipple play, nonbinary partners, oral sex, pleasure, polyamory, queer hookup culture, romance, romantic gestures, safe words, scruffy men, self-care, self-love, sensual exploration, sensual touch, sexually active trans men, sex in the rain, sex outside, sexual liberation, sexual shame, slow-down words, STI testing, strap-ons, testosterone, thigh sex, threesome curiosity, titty fucking, topping, transmasculinity, vibrators, words of affirmation, and worshiping men’s bodies.

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