You keep slipping into the same old patterns — even when you know better. This episode shows you how to spot your default responses and start changing them with one identity-aligned choice at a time.

You keep doing the thing you said you wouldn’t do. You shut down in meetings, say yes when you mean no, over-explain when you feel pressure. Why? Because you’re operating from nervous system defaults — not who you truly are.

In this episode, Julie Holly helps you identify the patterns that keep holding you back — and more importantly, how to interrupt them. You’ll learn why those behaviors formed, how they’re reinforced, and how one small shift can begin to rewire your internal script.

Through personal stories, a powerful example from Oprah Winfrey, and a micro-recalibration you can apply today, you’ll learn to lead yourself gently — not forcefully — into the next version of who you’re becoming.

In This Episode, We Cover:
 • What default patterns actually are — and how they get installed
 • How to recognize your most common “reactive” behaviors
 • The personal story behind re-recording Week 1 three times
 • Oprah’s early career recalibration and how it changed everything
 • A simple, science-backed process to interrupt default reactions
 • How to choose aligned action instead of old programming
 • Why noticing is the first step to identity-level change

Today’s Micro-Recalibration:
Pick one pattern you want to interrupt — just one.

Ask:
 • Where do I feel like I don’t have a choice?
 • What would a 5-second pause look like in that moment?
 • What would a new, aligned version of me do differently?

You don’t have to change everything today.
You just have to interrupt one old pattern — once.

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