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(***TIMESTAMPS in description below) ~ Sarma Melngailis is an American chef, cookbook author, businesswoman and ex-convict. She was the owner and co-founder of the formerly highly-regarded Pure Food and Wine restaurant in New York City.

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****TIMESTAMPS****

00:00 - Intro

01:22 - Netflix ignoring Psychological Abuse, Nexivm, Stolen Youth, Parents' Divorce

10:50 - Sarma's Autism Diagnosis, Aspergers, Sensory Disorder, Telepathy Tapes

21:53 - Thought Reading, Autism as Superpower, LSD at 13, Blue Hair Girl

32:01 - Unsupervised Childhood, Young Girls Spectrum, Older Friends, Skaters

42:36 - Book Cut Story, Virginity taken at 14, Childhood Trauma, Psychopaths, Rescue Animals

53:06 - Manipulation, Memory Holes, Vulnerability, Kids, Love & Attachment, Sick Attachment

01:02:46 - Pure Love, Younger Guys, Jealousy, Defining Love

01:13:29 - Jealousy, Cona Atists Reformed?, Sociopaths, Victim Blaming, Awareness

01:23:50 - Hyper Awareness, Second Opinions, Judging People

01:34:26 - Love Reading, Penn, Wharton, Wall St, Culinary School, Frat House

01:45:00 - Wall St, Culinary School, Brief Marriage, Wife Role

01:56:01 - Settling vs Love, Divorce, Chaos, Fighting, Extremes

02:07:27 - Conflict Avoidance, Anxiety, Friendships, Love Languages, Fear Asking Help

02:20:33 - Burden, Affirmations, Culinary School, Food, Veganism, First Scheme

CREDITS:

- Host, Editor & Producer: Julian Dorey

- COO, Producer & Editor: Alessi Allaman - https://www.youtube.com/@UCyLKzv5fKxGmVQg3cMJJzyQ

- In-Studio Producer: Joey Deef - https://www.instagram.com/joeydeef/

Julian Dorey Podcast Episode 342 - Sarma Melngailis

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