If you’ve spent years fixing, organizing, and caretaking before you even check in with yourself—this one is your homecoming. We name the quiet ache of overgiving and replace it with a grounded, guilt-free “first you” practice that turns scarcity into overflow. Through simple morning rituals, energetic boundaries, and self-honoring choices, you’ll feel how awareness shifts your entire day—and your life. We talk midlife empowerment, identity shifts, and the standards that rise when you finally remember your worth. By the end, you’ll know how to set your tone for the day, protect your energy like it’s sacred (because it is), and move from reaction to creation. Come breathe, recalibrate, and choose yourself—so the ripple you send into your world is love, joy, and alignment. 

 

✨ In This Episode You’ll Learn

• How a 5–90 minute morning ritual shifts you from reaction to creation. 
• Why “first you” ends resentment and fuels overflow for everyone. 
• What happens when you protect your energy with boundaries and breath. 
• How to return to center fast when life wobbles you. 
• The truth about worthiness: higher standards change your world. 

 

🦋 Reflection Questions

1. Where am I still overgiving from emptiness instead of overflow?
2. What would shift if I woke up for myself and not for everyone else?
3. Which boundary — with myself or others — would honour my energy right now?

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✨ First You: Boundaries for Joyful Holidays

The holidays don’t have to drain you. Step into a space where your peace comes first, your energy is protected, and your joy gets to lead.

Inside this on-demand masterclass, you’ll learn how to create loving, guilt-free boundaries that keep you grounded, present, and actually enjoying the season — without overgiving, overextending, or abandoning yourself.

- Watch the Masterclass: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/firstyoumasterclass

Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada