Tom Schwartz' dumpster fire of a WWHL appearance: From the weight cuffs he wore, to the admission that he knew about the affair since last August, to the plea to all of us to give Sandoval a hug. Wow, just wow. B and Amanda get into a conversation about what Tom Schwartz should have done - should he have told someone? When? How? And is he smarter than he plays on tv? There's a new lawsuit that alleges more cheating involving people we've seen on VPR and RHOBH. And we're hearing there's a new reality show brewing involving people from lots of different reality tv shows. We dissect a couple of the most memorable moments from this week's Real Housewives of New Jersey. And does Bravo use social media as a focus group? We think so - and we talk about this week's Bravo article about Lindsay Hubbard wanting to be a Housewife as the perfect example.

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