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#48 The 4 biggest spark killers in relationships - and how to keep the passion alive forever

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In this episode, I dive into the most common relationship traps that kills the spark and reveal the secrets to keeping the spark alive long-term. Discover:


  • Why couples have more power than they realize to sustain passion and connection - and how the honeymoon phase can last forever
  • Real-life examples of couples who revived their sexless marriages in just one week - you can bring the spark back!
  • A personal relationship story where we went from passionate lovers to feeling more like roommates
  • Why women often feel unfulfilled in sex first - and how the masculine approach to intimacy is a big part of the problem
  • Why basing your sex life on sexual desire alone is a recipe for disaster and how to rethink desire as a foundation for your sex life
  • The real reasons we lose the spark - and how to avoid common relationship traps
  • How a linear, goal-driven approach to sex burns out intimacy and why including a yin perspective brings more flow and satisfaction
  • Why scheduling and prioritizing intimacy is essential to maintaining long-lasting passion
  • The destructive impact of resentment and how it can kill or even turn off attraction completely
  • The power of meditating as a couple and why it's a must for sustaining connection
  • How becoming overly enmeshed erodes attraction, and the science behind polarity that shows why balancing connection with space is crucial for keeping the flame alive


    • Tune in to find out how you can avoid these common pitfalls and reignite the passion in your relationship!


    Other episodes mentioned:


    #38 What to do when sex feels like a chore: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7ik4SneN5mSve89ZATAdwW?si=522d0e5b246f4f58


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