DIEKE - The Podcast

DIEKE - The Podcast

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  • #52 Unlocking the Power and Purpose of Sexual Energy — What I Wish I Was Taught About Sex

    I explore the concept of sexual energy, its various purposes, and how it is intertwined with creativity, healing, and overall vitality. I discuss the misconceptions around sex driven by societal teachings and presents alternative perspectives rooted in tantric and Taoist practices.

    I delve into the importance of understanding both the outward and inward flow of sexual energy, the role of sexual energy in physical and emotional health, and practical methods for balancing masculine and feminine energies. The episode also includes an introduction to the Reza Method and the yin plug position, emphasizing their benefits for deepening intimacy and resolving relationship issues. I share personal insights and invites listeners to join her upcoming Feminine Legacy Academy for further education on these transformative concepts.


    I will talk about:

    • 00:00 Introduction to sexual energy
    • 00:32 Meet your host: Dieka
    • 01:57 Client inspiration and misconceptions about sex
    • 04:08 The importance of sexual energy
    • 07:42 Understanding sexual energy flows
    • 07:59 The Taoist perspective on sexual energy
    • 09:18 Things I wish I was taught about sexuality
    • 21:39 The concept of love appointments
    • 25:40 The spiral to heaven: pathway to bliss
    • 32:32 The yin plug and Reza method
    • 40:54 Conclusion and invitation to learn more


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     I invite you to put yourself on the bridge list. You can do that ⁠here⁠.


    Ik mis nog wel een link naar de 📍 Feminine Legacy Academy Wait list.


    Did this episode resonate with you? Leave a 5-star review, it helps more people find the podcast and benefit from it too. 💫

    Got questions or something you'd like to share? Reach out to me on Instagram ⁠@dieketerweel⁠. I’d love to hear from you!


    ✨ Ready to go deeper? Sign up for my free masterclass: ⁠Moving from Masculine to Feminine⁠ Learn how to embrace softness, rest, and connection – without losing yourself.

    43 min
  • #51 Three Questions That Will Bring You Back to Love When You're Struggling in Your Relationship

    I share a personal story about hitting a rough patch in my relationship. I felt disconnected, unhappy, and blamed my partner for my struggles. Reflecting on my own upbringing and relationship patterns, I discovered emotional triggers rooted in my past.


    I offer valuable insights and practical exercises to find the true source of emotional pain, meet one's own needs, and co-create a conscious relationship. I emphasizes embracing relationship challenges as opportunities for growth rather than escaping them.


    By asking three key questions, I illustrate how to navigate through struggles while maintaining self-love and connection with a partner. The episode encourages listeners to draw on their inner strength and collaborate with their partners for a more fulfilling relationship.


    I will talk about this:

    • 00:00 Introduction: Personal Struggles and Disconnect
    • 00:19 Welcome to the Podcast: My Journey and Mission
    • 01:44 A Rough Patch in My Relationship
    • 02:56 Lifestyle Shifts and Their Impact
    • 05:28 Reflecting on Personal and Relationship Dynamics
    • 11:24 Three Key Questions for Relationship Challenges
    • 22:31 Implementing Changes and Finding Solutions
    • 43:24 Practical Tips for Relationship Communication
    • 48:15 Conclusion and Invitation to Connect


    ____________________________________________________________

     I invite you to put yourself on the bridge list. You can do that here.


    Did this episode resonate with you? Leave a 5-star review, it helps more people find the podcast and benefit from it too. 💫

    Got questions or something you'd like to share? Reach out to me on Instagram @dieketerweel. I’d love to hear from you!

    ✨ Ready to go deeper? Sign up for my free masterclass:
    Moving from Masculine to Feminine
    Learn how to embrace softness, rest, and connection – without losing yourself.

    50 min
  • #50 Why rest won’t prevent burnout — the feminine secret to closing stress cycles

    I used to be the woman who had it all together. Achieving, pushing, competing, thriving in a man’s world — until I wasn’t. I was constantly ‘on,’ running on stress, and didn’t even realize I was headed straight for burnout. Luckily, I got out before it was too late. But most women don’t.


    If you’ve ever felt like no matter how much you rest and slow down, you’re still exhausted and snap right back into masculine overdrive the moment you start doing again, this episode is for you. Because burnout isn’t just about doing too much — it’s about not knowing how to close your stress cycles.


    In this episode, we dive into:

    - My personal story — how I was heading for a burnout out in my corporate career & what saved me

    - Why stress isn’t the real problem — and what actually is

    - Why women are more prone to burnout than men (it’s not just about workload)

    - The secret to closing stress cycles & why slowing down isn’t enough

    - Key feminine embodiment & Tantric principles that will help you close stress cycles


    Sign up for my brand new, FREE masterclass: Moving From Masculine to Feminine: https://dieketerweel.webinargeek.com/moving-from-masculine-to-feminine?cst=podcast


    Website: www.dieketerweel.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dieketerweel/

    40 min
  • #49 Five soulmate relationship keys to everlasting love & intimacy: A preview of the BRIDGE event

    Ever wondered what it really takes to create a soulmate-relationship? In this episode, I’m sharing the secrets to building and maintaining a deep, passionate connection with your partner — one that grows stronger over time.


    Here’s what I dive into:

    • What is a soulmate relationship really - and why so many people get it wrong
    • My personal love and relationship history and how it led me to Tantra
    • Why Tantra is the key to building a soulmate bond and how it serves as a powerful roadmap for couples
    • Why tending to your relationship like a garden is crucial for lasting happiness - forget the “happily ever after” myth!
    • The circular vs. linear approach to love - how this one shift can reignite your relationship
    • Why meditating together as a couple can transform your connection on every level
    • Body-based vs. mind-based relating: why your body has the answers your mind doesn’t
    • How to make the honeymoon phase last forever - and the surprising truth about keeping the spark alive
    • Why relying solely on desire for intimacy is dangerous, and what you should base your sex life on instead
    • Finding the perfect balance between freedom and connection in your relationship - becoming a true team
    • Feminine leadership: how you, as a woman, hold the key to inviting your partner into Tantra and deeper intimacy
    • Behind the scenes of The BRIDGE Event: a down-to-earth intro to Tantra for couples - without nudity, pressure, or awkwardness
    • What types of couples join The BRIDGE - and how this event could be the game-changer your relationship needs


      • Tune in to get an inside look at what makes soulmate relationships possible and how you can start creating this for yourself and your partner!


      BRIDGE event, find all the info here: https://dieketerweel.plugandpay.nl/bridge-event?ts=1725513180901


      Use the code ‘BRIDGEPODCAST’ at check-out to receive a 50 euro discount 


      BRIDGE list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist


      If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel 

      52 min
    • #48 The 4 biggest spark killers in relationships - and how to keep the passion alive forever

      In this episode, I dive into the most common relationship traps that kills the spark and reveal the secrets to keeping the spark alive long-term. Discover:


      • Why couples have more power than they realize to sustain passion and connection - and how the honeymoon phase can last forever
      • Real-life examples of couples who revived their sexless marriages in just one week - you can bring the spark back!
      • A personal relationship story where we went from passionate lovers to feeling more like roommates
      • Why women often feel unfulfilled in sex first - and how the masculine approach to intimacy is a big part of the problem
      • Why basing your sex life on sexual desire alone is a recipe for disaster and how to rethink desire as a foundation for your sex life
      • The real reasons we lose the spark - and how to avoid common relationship traps
      • How a linear, goal-driven approach to sex burns out intimacy and why including a yin perspective brings more flow and satisfaction
      • Why scheduling and prioritizing intimacy is essential to maintaining long-lasting passion
      • The destructive impact of resentment and how it can kill or even turn off attraction completely
      • The power of meditating as a couple and why it's a must for sustaining connection
      • How becoming overly enmeshed erodes attraction, and the science behind polarity that shows why balancing connection with space is crucial for keeping the flame alive


        • Tune in to find out how you can avoid these common pitfalls and reignite the passion in your relationship!


        Other episodes mentioned:


        #38 What to do when sex feels like a chore: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7ik4SneN5mSve89ZATAdwW?si=522d0e5b246f4f58


        BRIDGE list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist


        BRIDGE event, find all the info here: https://dieketerweel.plugandpay.nl/bridge-event?ts=1725513180901


        If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel 

        51 min
      • #47 I got attracted to someone else and this is how it supported my relationship

        Ever felt confused or ashamed about being attracted to someone else while in a relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into my own journey around this and share a recent personal story of my attraction to someone else, and how I turned this experience into deeper aliveness and a stronger connection with myself and my partner.


        Here’s what I dive into:

        • My personal relationship history from monogamy to open relating — and the lessons I learned along the way.
        • The confusion and shame I felt when I found myself drawn to others while in a relationship.
        • How my partner and I created a unique framework that merges monogamy with elements of polyamory to keep our love and spark alive.
        • The consequences of bottling up your sexual and life-force energy within a relationship — and why it’s a bad idea.
        • Why being attracted to others is completely normal, and how embracing this can boost your aliveness, sexiness, and vitality.
        • How men and women experience attraction differently based on primal instincts, and how these differences can play out in relationships.
        • The key skills you need to safely explore attractions outside your relationship without creating chaos or harm.
        • Expanding your understanding of attraction through the lens of sexual energy.
        • The crucial do’s and don’ts when setting boundaries around attraction in a committed relationship.
        • How to use conscious communication to talk to your partner about feeling drawn to others.
        • The power of meditation and Tantra in handling intense attraction without the urge to act on it.
        • A recent personal story of my attraction to someone else, and how I turned this experience into deeper aliveness and a stronger connection with myself and my partner.


          • Other episodes mentioned:


          #45 Are we monogamous or polyamorous? 

          https://open.spotify.com/episode/1fDhpOYBw71jLAFiCvZWjG?si=5388dea584334d65


          #41 From drama love stories to soulmate relationship

          https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nNJQvXfWnZ0XIRmGRpPGJ?si=795461eb142e4b14


          Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist


          BRIDGE list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist


          If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel 

          1 hr 5 min
        • #46 From suitcase to soulmate: My bold move to Bali

          Ever wondered what it takes to leave the corporate world behind and start a new life on a tropical island? In this episode, I’m sharing all the juicy details about my leap of faith to Bali — from navigating the chaos of my intuition versus logic, to living without a safety net of savings or a solid plan.


          Here's what I dive into: 

          • My journey from a structured career to embracing the unknown in Bali and the incredible transformations I've experienced.
          • The raw truth about my first 1.5 years on the island — the financial struggles, the challenges, and the tests that pushed me to my limits.
          • How Bali's feminine energy taught me to surrender, trust, and invite magic into my life.
          • Why I’m hesitant to give out Bali tips (and the few recommendations I’ll make when you visit).
          • My secret to making big changes happen quickly by taking smaller, more intuitive steps.
          • The practical side of moving to Bali — costs, visas, and what you need to know.
          • Plus, a few downsides and the reality behind the dreamy Bali life.


            • If you’ve ever dreamed of a radical life change or are curious about Bali’s transformative magic, this episode is for you!


            If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel: https://www.instagram.com/dieketerweel

            59 min
          • #45 Are we monogamous or polyamorous?

            In this episode, we explore:

            • A question we get asked all the time—are we monogamous or polyamorous?
            • Our individual relationship histories before we met each other
            • What polyamory really means to us and how we define it in our relationship
            • The importance of understanding each other’s definitions of relationships and commitment
            • How learning to listen, ask questions, and understand each other’s perspectives has shaped our connection
            • Diving into sexual blueprints and how they influence our relationship choices
            • The different mating strategies of men and women and how they play into relationship dynamics
            • The framework we created for our relationship and how we co-create a dynamic that honors both of our needs
            • What we consider cheating and where we draw the line
            • Our take on being sexually monogamous but energetically polyamorous


              • Join us as we pull back the curtain on our relationship and share the unique approach we've taken to build something that works for both of us.


              If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel or @modetas_stonkus

              1 hr 23 min
            • #44 How to avoid getting attached: Navigating casual sex and strong connections

              In this episode, my partner and I dive into:

              • Answering your burning questions about love, sex, and attachment
              • How to enjoy a powerful, activating connection with someone without becoming attached or feeling the need to create a relationship
              • The reality of women’s sexuality and why women often fall in love after sex
              • Personal stories and love experiments that reveal the complexities of attachment
              • The importance of aftercare and integration after intense sexual experiences—what it looks like and why it matters
              • How to create holistic sexual experiences that leave a lasting imprint of love by balancing both yang and yin energies
              • Tantric tools to help you navigate and support this journey
              • Why love never truly disappears, even after a relationship ends
              • Understanding why strong attraction might not be the best indicator of a sustainable relationship
              • Debunking the idea that having a "type" points you to your soulmate


                • If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel or @modestas_stonkus

                50 min
              • #43 The unexpected lesson: What getting tied up taught me about true surrender

                In this episode, I dive into:

                • My kinky teenage fantasies and the longing to be submissive
                • The deep, feminine desire that almost every woman yearns to experience
                • My struggles with achieving orgasms; alone and with partners
                • The difference between masculine and feminine power
                • Exploring kinks, fantasies, desires and where they come from
                • A transformative sexual experience where I got tied up
                • Understanding the difference between submission and true surrender
                • Why cultivating inner safety is crucial for surrender
                • The five keys and essential components to achieving surrender
                • The Tantric theory behind sexual energy and full-body orgasmic states
                • How to encourage and inspire men to lead and take control
                • Understanding men and their desires and their primal nature
                • A Tantric method to help you embody a state of surrender


                  • Join me for an intimate and revealing discussion on surrender, power, and the journey to deeper pleasure.


                  Feminine RESET embodiment course: https://dieketerweel.com/the-feminine-reset


                  Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist


                  If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel 

                  51 min

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