DIEKE - The Podcast

By Dieke ter Weel

I give you a look into my life as former business consultant now tantra teacher and speaker.

If you are interested in self-development (and receiving the kind of education you should have

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The podcast currently has 49 episodes available.

DIEKE - The Podcast episodes:

September 11, 2024#47 I got attracted to someone else and this is how it supported my relationship
Ever felt confused or ashamed about being attracted to someone else while in a relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into my own journey around this and share a recent personal story of my attraction to someone else, and how I turned this experience into deeper aliveness and a stronger connection with myself and my partner.

Here’s what I dive into:
My personal relationship history from monogamy to open relating — and the lessons I learned along the way.

The confusion and shame I felt when I found myself drawn to others while in a relationship.

How my partner and I created a unique framework that merges monogamy with elements of polyamory to keep our love and spark alive.

The consequences of bottling up your sexual and life-force energy within a relationship — and why it’s a bad idea.

Why being attracted to others is completely normal, and how embracing this can boost your aliveness, sexiness, and vitality.

How men and women experience attraction differently based on primal instincts, and how these differences can play out in relationships.

The key skills you need to safely explore attractions outside your relationship without creating chaos or harm.

Expanding your understanding of attraction through the lens of sexual energy.

The crucial do’s and don’ts when setting boundaries around attraction in a committed relationship.

How to use conscious communication to talk to your partner about feeling drawn to others.

The power of meditation and Tantra in handling intense attraction without the urge to act on it.

A recent personal story of my attraction to someone else, and how I turned this experience into deeper aliveness and a stronger connection with myself and my partner.

Other episodes mentioned:

#45 Are we monogamous or polyamorous?
https://open.spotify.com/episode/1fDhpOYBw71jLAFiCvZWjG?si=5388dea584334d65

#41 From drama love stories to soulmate relationship
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nNJQvXfWnZ0XIRmGRpPGJ?si=795461eb142e4b14

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

BRIDGE list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel
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1h 5min
September 04, 2024#46 From suitcase to soulmate: My bold move to Bali
Ever wondered what it takes to leave the corporate world behind and start a new life on a tropical island? In this episode, I’m sharing all the juicy details about my leap of faith to Bali — from navigating the chaos of my intuition versus logic, to living without a safety net of savings or a solid plan.

Here's what I dive into:
My journey from a structured career to embracing the unknown in Bali and the incredible transformations I've experienced.

The raw truth about my first 1.5 years on the island — the financial struggles, the challenges, and the tests that pushed me to my limits.

How Bali's feminine energy taught me to surrender, trust, and invite magic into my life.

Why I’m hesitant to give out Bali tips (and the few recommendations I’ll make when you visit).

My secret to making big changes happen quickly by taking smaller, more intuitive steps.

The practical side of moving to Bali — costs, visas, and what you need to know.

Plus, a few downsides and the reality behind the dreamy Bali life.

If you’ve ever dreamed of a radical life change or are curious about Bali’s transformative magic, this episode is for you!

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel: https://www.instagram.com/dieketerweel
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59min
August 21, 2024#45 Are we monogamous or polyamorous?
In this episode, we explore:
A question we get asked all the time—are we monogamous or polyamorous?

Our individual relationship histories before we met each other

What polyamory really means to us and how we define it in our relationship

The importance of understanding each other’s definitions of relationships and commitment

How learning to listen, ask questions, and understand each other’s perspectives has shaped our connection

Diving into sexual blueprints and how they influence our relationship choices

The different mating strategies of men and women and how they play into relationship dynamics

The framework we created for our relationship and how we co-create a dynamic that honors both of our needs

What we consider cheating and where we draw the line

Our take on being sexually monogamous but energetically polyamorous

Join us as we pull back the curtain on our relationship and share the unique approach we've taken to build something that works for both of us.

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel or @modetas_stonkus
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1h 23min
August 14, 2024#44 How to avoid getting attached: Navigating casual sex and strong connections
In this episode, my partner and I dive into:
Answering your burning questions about love, sex, and attachment

How to enjoy a powerful, activating connection with someone without becoming attached or feeling the need to create a relationship

The reality of women’s sexuality and why women often fall in love after sex

Personal stories and love experiments that reveal the complexities of attachment

The importance of aftercare and integration after intense sexual experiences—what it looks like and why it matters

How to create holistic sexual experiences that leave a lasting imprint of love by balancing both yang and yin energies

Tantric tools to help you navigate and support this journey

Why love never truly disappears, even after a relationship ends

Understanding why strong attraction might not be the best indicator of a sustainable relationship

Debunking the idea that having a "type" points you to your soulmate

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel or @modestas_stonkus
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50min
August 07, 2024#43 The unexpected lesson: What getting tied up taught me about true surrender
In this episode, I dive into:
My kinky teenage fantasies and the longing to be submissive

The deep, feminine desire that almost every woman yearns to experience

My struggles with achieving orgasms; alone and with partners

The difference between masculine and feminine power

Exploring kinks, fantasies, desires and where they come from

A transformative sexual experience where I got tied up

Understanding the difference between submission and true surrender

Why cultivating inner safety is crucial for surrender

The five keys and essential components to achieving surrender

The Tantric theory behind sexual energy and full-body orgasmic states

How to encourage and inspire men to lead and take control

Understanding men and their desires and their primal nature

A Tantric method to help you embody a state of surrender

Join me for an intimate and revealing discussion on surrender, power, and the journey to deeper pleasure.

Feminine RESET embodiment course: https://dieketerweel.com/the-feminine-reset

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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51min
July 31, 2024 #42 Transform your emotions into orgasmic bliss and aliveness
In this episode, I dive into:
- Overcoming emotional numbness and dissociation
- The importance of emotional fluidity in activating pleasure, aliveness, and playfulness
- Breaking free from the "good girl" and people-pleasing habits, and embracing healthy expressions of anger
- My personal journey from numbness to feeling and expressing emotions in a healthy way
- The connection between your emotions and your menstrual cycle
- The three Tantric keys to alchemizing, moving, and transforming emotions efficiently
- Closing stress and emotional cycles to prevent burnout and depression
- Navigating triggers and achieving emotional fluidity to handle them easily and healthily
- A recent trigger in my relationship and how I healed through it

Join me for a transformative discussion on turning your emotions into a source of aliveness and orgasmic energy.

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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45min
July 24, 2024 #41 From drama love stories to soulmate relationship
In this episode, I dive into:
- My tumultuous dating history filled with drama and heartbreak, including vulnerable stories of my own dramatic love experiences
- The Tantric science behind polarity, desire, and attraction
- Navigating attractions to others while in a relationship
- My explorations of monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships
- How to avoid drama in your love life
- Steps to create a conscious, meaningful relationship
- The Liberated Lover method I developed
- The importance of conscious communication and crucial conversations before getting sexual
- How to gracefully and lovingly end a connection or relationship

Join me for an honest, eye-opening discussion on transforming chaotic love stories into conscious, fulfilling connections and soulmate relationships.

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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52min
July 17, 2024#40 Mastering balance: Uniting your inner masculine and feminine
In this episode, I dive into:
My life before understanding masculine and feminine energies

How being disconnected from my feminine side led to faking orgasms, numbing emotions, body shaming, and hating my period

A breakdown of masculine and feminine behaviors and qualities: what's their healthy and unhealthy expression

The dangers of overdrive mode and how embracing healthy feminine behavior can prevent burnout

Why connecting with your feminine side is the first essential step toward mastering inner balance

The true meaning of balance and why it's not a fixed destination

How Tantric teachings help you balance your inner masculine and feminine, and how it support this also within relationships

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

Feminine RESET embodiment course: https://dieketerweel.com/the-feminine-reset

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message to me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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48min
July 10, 2024#39 What is Tantra really (and what is it NOT)?
In this episode I dive into:
The three different and unique meanings of Tantra

Why Tantra is the ultimate path to finding dynamic balance in your life, teaching you to embrace all parts of yourself

How Tantra bridges the opposites between men and women or the masculine and the feminine

Changing and transforming the way we get educated from theory/mind based to body/experience based, which cultivates your own inner wisdom

What to expect from Tantric meditations and practices

The quickest Tantra meditation (just 4 minutes) explained

The undeniable connection between Tantra and sex

A Tantric meditation focused on desire that can deeply enhance intimacy with your partner

Join me in uncovering the transformative power of Tantra and how it can bring more love, intimacy and pleasure into your life and relationships.

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

Tantra retreats for couples information email list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist

BRIDGE - 3 Tantric Dates Online Course: https://dieketerweel.plugandpay.nl/checkout/bridge-online-course

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If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message to me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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1h 1min
July 03, 2024#38 What to do when sex feels like a chore
In this episode I dive into:
The ‘just getting it over with handjob’ phenomenon

My personal journey about faking orgasms and treating sex like a performance

The reason why sex, pleasure, and orgasm can feel like a chore for you

A recent experience where I ran away from intimacy with my partner and what it taught me

The truth behind why you might be shutting down sexually with your partner

Five different ways to use sex in your life that you probably haven't heard of

The conditioning around sex that we all face and how it impacts our intimate life

Key differences between male and female sexuality and why many women eventually end up seeing sex as a chore

How vulnerability is crucial for a fulfilling and fun sex life

Join me as we uncover the secrets to transforming your sexual experiences from a chore into a joy!

Feminine Legacy Academy waitlist:

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dieketerweel
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48min

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