DIEKE - The Podcast

By Dieke ter Weel

I give you a look into my life as former business consultant now tantra teacher and speaker.

If you are interested in self-development (and receiving the kind of education you should have

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DIEKE - The Podcast episodes:

October 26, 2024#49 Five soulmate relationship keys to everlasting love & intimacy: A preview of the BRIDGE event
Ever wondered what it really takes to create a soulmate-relationship? In this episode, I’m sharing the secrets to building and maintaining a deep, passionate connection with your partner — one that grows stronger over time.

Here’s what I dive into:
What is a soulmate relationship really - and why so many people get it wrong

My personal love and relationship history and how it led me to Tantra

Why Tantra is the key to building a soulmate bond and how it serves as a powerful roadmap for couples

Why tending to your relationship like a garden is crucial for lasting happiness - forget the “happily ever after” myth!

The circular vs. linear approach to love - how this one shift can reignite your relationship

Why meditating together as a couple can transform your connection on every level

Body-based vs. mind-based relating: why your body has the answers your mind doesn’t

How to make the honeymoon phase last forever - and the surprising truth about keeping the spark alive

Why relying solely on desire for intimacy is dangerous, and what you should base your sex life on instead

Finding the perfect balance between freedom and connection in your relationship - becoming a true team

Feminine leadership: how you, as a woman, hold the key to inviting your partner into Tantra and deeper intimacy

Behind the scenes of The BRIDGE Event: a down-to-earth intro to Tantra for couples - without nudity, pressure, or awkwardness

What types of couples join The BRIDGE - and how this event could be the game-changer your relationship needs

Tune in to get an inside look at what makes soulmate relationships possible and how you can start creating this for yourself and your partner!

BRIDGE event, find all the info here: https://dieketerweel.plugandpay.nl/bridge-event?ts=1725513180901

Use the code ‘BRIDGEPODCAST’ at check-out to receive a 50 euro discount

BRIDGE list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel
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52min
October 02, 2024#48 The 4 biggest spark killers in relationships - and how to keep the passion alive forever
In this episode, I dive into the most common relationship traps that kills the spark and reveal the secrets to keeping the spark alive long-term. Discover:
Why couples have more power than they realize to sustain passion and connection - and how the honeymoon phase can last forever

Real-life examples of couples who revived their sexless marriages in just one week - you can bring the spark back!

A personal relationship story where we went from passionate lovers to feeling more like roommates

Why women often feel unfulfilled in sex first - and how the masculine approach to intimacy is a big part of the problem

Why basing your sex life on sexual desire alone is a recipe for disaster and how to rethink desire as a foundation for your sex life

The real reasons we lose the spark - and how to avoid common relationship traps

How a linear, goal-driven approach to sex burns out intimacy and why including a yin perspective brings more flow and satisfaction

Why scheduling and prioritizing intimacy is essential to maintaining long-lasting passion

The destructive impact of resentment and how it can kill or even turn off attraction completely

The power of meditating as a couple and why it's a must for sustaining connection

How becoming overly enmeshed erodes attraction, and the science behind polarity that shows why balancing connection with space is crucial for keeping the flame alive

Tune in to find out how you can avoid these common pitfalls and reignite the passion in your relationship!

Other episodes mentioned:

#38 What to do when sex feels like a chore: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7ik4SneN5mSve89ZATAdwW?si=522d0e5b246f4f58

BRIDGE list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist

BRIDGE event, find all the info here: https://dieketerweel.plugandpay.nl/bridge-event?ts=1725513180901

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel
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51min
September 11, 2024#47 I got attracted to someone else and this is how it supported my relationship
Ever felt confused or ashamed about being attracted to someone else while in a relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into my own journey around this and share a recent personal story of my attraction to someone else, and how I turned this experience into deeper aliveness and a stronger connection with myself and my partner.

Here’s what I dive into:
My personal relationship history from monogamy to open relating — and the lessons I learned along the way.

The confusion and shame I felt when I found myself drawn to others while in a relationship.

How my partner and I created a unique framework that merges monogamy with elements of polyamory to keep our love and spark alive.

The consequences of bottling up your sexual and life-force energy within a relationship — and why it’s a bad idea.

Why being attracted to others is completely normal, and how embracing this can boost your aliveness, sexiness, and vitality.

How men and women experience attraction differently based on primal instincts, and how these differences can play out in relationships.

The key skills you need to safely explore attractions outside your relationship without creating chaos or harm.

Expanding your understanding of attraction through the lens of sexual energy.

The crucial do’s and don’ts when setting boundaries around attraction in a committed relationship.

How to use conscious communication to talk to your partner about feeling drawn to others.

The power of meditation and Tantra in handling intense attraction without the urge to act on it.

A recent personal story of my attraction to someone else, and how I turned this experience into deeper aliveness and a stronger connection with myself and my partner.

Other episodes mentioned:

#45 Are we monogamous or polyamorous?
https://open.spotify.com/episode/1fDhpOYBw71jLAFiCvZWjG?si=5388dea584334d65

#41 From drama love stories to soulmate relationship
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nNJQvXfWnZ0XIRmGRpPGJ?si=795461eb142e4b14

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

BRIDGE list, sign up here: www.dieketerweel.com/the-bridge-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel
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1h 5min
September 04, 2024#46 From suitcase to soulmate: My bold move to Bali
Ever wondered what it takes to leave the corporate world behind and start a new life on a tropical island? In this episode, I’m sharing all the juicy details about my leap of faith to Bali — from navigating the chaos of my intuition versus logic, to living without a safety net of savings or a solid plan.

Here's what I dive into:
My journey from a structured career to embracing the unknown in Bali and the incredible transformations I've experienced.

The raw truth about my first 1.5 years on the island — the financial struggles, the challenges, and the tests that pushed me to my limits.

How Bali's feminine energy taught me to surrender, trust, and invite magic into my life.

Why I’m hesitant to give out Bali tips (and the few recommendations I’ll make when you visit).

My secret to making big changes happen quickly by taking smaller, more intuitive steps.

The practical side of moving to Bali — costs, visas, and what you need to know.

Plus, a few downsides and the reality behind the dreamy Bali life.

If you’ve ever dreamed of a radical life change or are curious about Bali’s transformative magic, this episode is for you!

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a personal message on Instagram @dieketerweel: https://www.instagram.com/dieketerweel
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59min
August 21, 2024#45 Are we monogamous or polyamorous?
In this episode, we explore:
A question we get asked all the time—are we monogamous or polyamorous?

Our individual relationship histories before we met each other

What polyamory really means to us and how we define it in our relationship

The importance of understanding each other’s definitions of relationships and commitment

How learning to listen, ask questions, and understand each other’s perspectives has shaped our connection

Diving into sexual blueprints and how they influence our relationship choices

The different mating strategies of men and women and how they play into relationship dynamics

The framework we created for our relationship and how we co-create a dynamic that honors both of our needs

What we consider cheating and where we draw the line

Our take on being sexually monogamous but energetically polyamorous

Join us as we pull back the curtain on our relationship and share the unique approach we've taken to build something that works for both of us.

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel or @modetas_stonkus
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1h 23min
August 14, 2024#44 How to avoid getting attached: Navigating casual sex and strong connections
In this episode, my partner and I dive into:
Answering your burning questions about love, sex, and attachment

How to enjoy a powerful, activating connection with someone without becoming attached or feeling the need to create a relationship

The reality of women’s sexuality and why women often fall in love after sex

Personal stories and love experiments that reveal the complexities of attachment

The importance of aftercare and integration after intense sexual experiences—what it looks like and why it matters

How to create holistic sexual experiences that leave a lasting imprint of love by balancing both yang and yin energies

Tantric tools to help you navigate and support this journey

Why love never truly disappears, even after a relationship ends

Understanding why strong attraction might not be the best indicator of a sustainable relationship

Debunking the idea that having a "type" points you to your soulmate

If you loved this episode, have any questions, or just want to share your thoughts, I’d love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel or @modestas_stonkus
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50min
August 07, 2024#43 The unexpected lesson: What getting tied up taught me about true surrender
In this episode, I dive into:
My kinky teenage fantasies and the longing to be submissive

The deep, feminine desire that almost every woman yearns to experience

My struggles with achieving orgasms; alone and with partners

The difference between masculine and feminine power

Exploring kinks, fantasies, desires and where they come from

A transformative sexual experience where I got tied up

Understanding the difference between submission and true surrender

Why cultivating inner safety is crucial for surrender

The five keys and essential components to achieving surrender

The Tantric theory behind sexual energy and full-body orgasmic states

How to encourage and inspire men to lead and take control

Understanding men and their desires and their primal nature

A Tantric method to help you embody a state of surrender

Join me for an intimate and revealing discussion on surrender, power, and the journey to deeper pleasure.

Feminine RESET embodiment course: https://dieketerweel.com/the-feminine-reset

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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51min
July 31, 2024 #42 Transform your emotions into orgasmic bliss and aliveness
In this episode, I dive into:
- Overcoming emotional numbness and dissociation
- The importance of emotional fluidity in activating pleasure, aliveness, and playfulness
- Breaking free from the "good girl" and people-pleasing habits, and embracing healthy expressions of anger
- My personal journey from numbness to feeling and expressing emotions in a healthy way
- The connection between your emotions and your menstrual cycle
- The three Tantric keys to alchemizing, moving, and transforming emotions efficiently
- Closing stress and emotional cycles to prevent burnout and depression
- Navigating triggers and achieving emotional fluidity to handle them easily and healthily
- A recent trigger in my relationship and how I healed through it

Join me for a transformative discussion on turning your emotions into a source of aliveness and orgasmic energy.

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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45min
July 24, 2024 #41 From drama love stories to soulmate relationship
In this episode, I dive into:
- My tumultuous dating history filled with drama and heartbreak, including vulnerable stories of my own dramatic love experiences
- The Tantric science behind polarity, desire, and attraction
- Navigating attractions to others while in a relationship
- My explorations of monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships
- How to avoid drama in your love life
- Steps to create a conscious, meaningful relationship
- The Liberated Lover method I developed
- The importance of conscious communication and crucial conversations before getting sexual
- How to gracefully and lovingly end a connection or relationship

Join me for an honest, eye-opening discussion on transforming chaotic love stories into conscious, fulfilling connections and soulmate relationships.

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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52min
July 17, 2024#40 Mastering balance: Uniting your inner masculine and feminine
In this episode, I dive into:
My life before understanding masculine and feminine energies

How being disconnected from my feminine side led to faking orgasms, numbing emotions, body shaming, and hating my period

A breakdown of masculine and feminine behaviors and qualities: what's their healthy and unhealthy expression

The dangers of overdrive mode and how embracing healthy feminine behavior can prevent burnout

Why connecting with your feminine side is the first essential step toward mastering inner balance

The true meaning of balance and why it's not a fixed destination

How Tantric teachings help you balance your inner masculine and feminine, and how it support this also within relationships

Feminine Legacy Academy Waitlist: www.dieketerweel.com/feminine-legacy-academy-waitlist

Feminine RESET embodiment course: https://dieketerweel.com/the-feminine-reset

If you loved this episode, have any questions or other comments I would love to hear from you! Message to me personally on Instagram @dieketerweel
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48min

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