We’re breaking down how Gen Z approaches relationships—ghosting, situationships, and all—with our hilarious new friend and special guest, comedian Ray Lau. It’s a wild ride through modern love you don’t want to miss.

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Timecodes (Episode #6):

0:00 - Intro

3:37 - Ray’s Start in Comedy

11:04 - Ghosted Announcement

12:56 - Ray and Wootak’s Freak Tooth

15:18 - Jordan’s Speech Impediment

18:06 - First Time Ray Got High

19:18 - Ray Like Foot Jobs?

23:55 - We Have Intercourse With One Another?

24:43 - Ray’s Dating Life

26:36 - Wootak’s Vegas “Friend”

28:38 - Esther Eats Everything At Buffet

29:37 - Most Asian Thing Our Parents Did

34:52 - Back to Ray’s Dating Life

35:26 - Scale on Breaking Up

42:42 - Is Ray Looking to Date?

44:33 - Innocent Looking Men Are Tricking You

51:09 - Gen Z Bases Explained

54:55 - Having Intercourse on the First Date

57:48 - Making Moves First as a Women

1:01:44 - Jordan and Cynthia’s First Kiss

1:06:00 - Super Bonsai

1:07:25 - Heckler Stories

1:09:11 - Funniest Asian Parent moments

1:11:58 - Wootak Gets Invited to Speak At UC Berkley

1:13:14 - 20 Phrases to elegantly roast someone

1:26:52 - What is the trade off physical trait

1:30:37 - Are You fighting for your girl?

1:35:37 - Wootak’s Crazy Night (Bonus content)

1:35:45 - Would Kira and Esther Want Their Man to Fight for Them

1:42:03 - We Call Ray’s Friend That Watches Our Show

1:49:10 - What Makes a Hookup So Bad You Won’t Go Back For Seconds?

1:54:30 - What is Good Intercourse

2:01:56 - Meet Our Friend, Carey

2:06:44 - DOLLAR STORE THERAPY

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