In this episode, Enoch talks about the Relationship Attachment Model, otherwise known as the R.A.M. The R.A.M. was developed by John Van Epp, Ph.D. and he talks about it in his book How To Avoid Falling In love With A Jerk. (Link down below!). Enoch teaches how the R.A.M. works, and how to keep it balanced to form the strong healthy bonds that successful relationships are made of. 

Link for the R.A.M. picture:

http://www.codependencynomore.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Relationship-Attachment-Model-2.gif 

Link for How To Avoid Falling In Love With A Jerk:

https://www.google.com/books/edition/How_to_Avoid_Falling_in_Love_with_a_Jerk/AVb6qU7N6akC?hl=en&gbpv=0