What if the most powerful leadership lessons came from moments where every word truly mattered?

In this compelling episode of Daily Influence, Gregg-Brooke Koleno sits down with Scott Tillema — FBI-trained hostage negotiator, former SWAT crisis negotiator, and senior law enforcement leader — to explore how high-stakes communication principles translate directly into everyday leadership.

With more than two decades of experience navigating crisis situations, Scott has learned that influence begins with one critical step: managing yourself first. From controlling tone and delivery under pressure to having the courage to step into difficult conversations, Scott shares practical strategies leaders can use to build trust, resolve conflict, and create alignment without coercion.

Together, they discuss:

• Why leadership starts with self-awareness

• How fairness, empathy, and appreciation drive engagement

• The power of active listening in building connection

• Why slowing down actually helps you move faster

• Tactical breathing techniques to stay grounded under stress

• How small, intentional daily actions create lasting influence

Scott’s journey from law enforcement to global keynote speaker reminds us that powerful communication isn’t an innate gift — it’s a skill anyone can learn and strengthen.

If you lead a team, run a business, or simply want to show up more intentionally in your relationships, this episode offers actionable insight into how responsible influence is built through connection, not control.

Because leadership isn’t about the title you hold — it’s about the impact you make.

Connect with Scott:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/tillema/

https://scotttillema.com/