In this episode, Kristina and Anna unpack one of the most deceptively charming villains in the Inner Villain system: the Eternal Child, also known as the Peter Pan archetype. From its origins as “Norman Bates” to the deep dive into J.M. Barrie’s surprisingly toxic Peter Pan, this conversation explores how the Eternal Child is rooted in the mother wound, thrives on confabulated reality, and resists the grounded action that real growth requires.

You’ll hear how this archetype shows up in everyday relationships, the difference between harmless childlike play and destructive immaturity, and why “love bombing” often masks the need to be taken care of. Kristina shares personal stories, literary analysis, and a biting “Am I the Asshole?” example that perfectly illustrates this villain in action.

We also explore the Hero form (The Reflective) and the Legend form (The Traveler), and how travel, self-awareness, and facing reality are key to moving out of the Eternal Child cycle.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

• How the Eternal Child confabulates reality vs. intentionally gaslights
• The entitlement of “having your cake and eating it too” in relationships
• Why Peter Pan is a surprisingly dark figure when you read the original story
• How the Eternal Child differs from the Vain Controller (Regina George)
• Real-life and pop culture examples, from Kanye West to Parks & Rec’s Andy
• Practical ways to recognize and invert the Eternal Child archetype

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