There are days you don't wanna get up, don't want to deal with the day, not wanting to workout, go to work, etc. Lack of motivation is something we all face from time to time. But it's our responsibility to fight, and ignite that flame, that will, that passion!

Today I'm going to share my battle with "lack of motivation." A couple of weeks ago I released the " Love Death Poetry" episode, sharing the depressing slump I've been in. It had a multitude of negative effects, and I became more and more aware of how it affected how I go about my day, my performance and lack of strength at the gym, the bitterness for my work, and not wanting to get up in the morning and start my day... And through that awareness, I realized that I have two options, let it swallow me, or fight for my life. I chose to fight, being happy is more important to me, achieving my goals are important to me, and without both, life has no meaning. And I refuse to live a meaningless life! 

We have made it to the second last habit "Synergize." This habit is all about working as a team, and respecting and accepting differences. Whether it be physical, moral, or perspective. After all, variety is the spice of life. 

Not everyone will agree with you, or have the same point of view, you shouldn't take it as an offence, or a means of separating and distancing yourself from that person. Instead, try to see and understand where they are coming from, and how you can take advantage of the contrasting perspective, maybe you missed something, maybe they have an alternative solution to a problem. Life is all about coming together for the greater good, and we can do that by utilizing each individual's unique skills and perspective's. Your difference can make a difference. 

Death is inevitable, it's the one fate everyone shares. Only thing is, for the most part, it's unpredictable.  Which is why I believe they say "Life Is Short."  More like, it can be. So what then?

This episode is going to be a little on the sad side, I've recently been dealing with the loss of two people I know, and it got me thinking a lot about mortality and the fairness of life. And I'd like to open up and share these thoughts with you, along with a poem I wrote a few years back.  

A part of me hopes you can relate to the topics and the thoughts I'm sharing, while another part of me, hope you never experience a loss or the feeling of helplessness.  But if you have, feel free to reach out to me, leave a comment, send an email, or Dm on Instagram. 

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"You have to build the skills of empathic listening on a base of character that inspires openness and trust."

 -Stephen Covey

Communication is one of the most important things when it comes to building/maintaining relationships. But most of what you communicate isn't coming out your mouth. 10% is what you say, 30% is how you say it, and 60% is through body language.  I guess you could also factor in one of the most used forms of communication, texting. Which I think if factored into the pie chart, would only be worth 5%, in terms of effectiveness.  But what about listening?

We've made it to habit number 5, which is to "seek first to understand, then to be understood." Everyone loves to talk, but what about listening? And I don't mean nod your head and go "uh huh.yea. true" I'm talking about tuned in, focused, empathetic listening.  Cause if everyone's talking, and no ones listening, how are we going to understand each other, how can we solve problems, come to an agreement? So in this episode, I dive in, and share my opinions, along with personal truths in regards to the flaws in my communications. 

This episode is perfect for you to practice listening, you are the listener after all, but I would also love to hear thoughts and opinions, email me,  leave a comment, or walk up to me on the street! but for now, pop those headphones in, bump the stereo and enjoy the episode!

We've had many different conversations about sex on this podcast, it's fun, it's beautiful, It's dangerous, and it also comes with a lot of different stories.

A warm welcome to my buddy Zack! Zack and I met in film school, we haven't seen each other much after college, we catch up from time to time, and on today's episode we catch up again, this time in regards to Zack's sexual journey. The drunk nights, the courtesy licks, and becoming more compassionate.  

As always, this is an unfiltered conversation, holding nothing back. But that aside, I hope this episode gives you a good laugh, or even motivate you to explore more sex and your sexuality. 

Stong people don't put others down.They lift them up.

-Michael P. Watson

Imagine a world where everyone strives, a community of people helping and celebrating each other, co-existing in peace... Yea right!

But it is possible. It all starts with awareness and a global shift in consciousness towards a win-win mindset. If I prosper, you prosper, if I rise you rise with me. 

We have made it to habit #4 "Think win-win." In life, there are many contrasts and polar opposites, good and bad, light and dark, and then there is winners and losers.  We are taught that life is a competition, and to be honest, it is. the problem is that the true definition has been forgotten. The modern-day definition is to oppose, rival, and conflict. But the word compete comes from the Latin word competere, which mean "come together" or "strive together."  And having a win-win mindset is having a mindset towards abundance, respect, and love. which is what the world needs the most right now. 

Get ready, max the volume and tune in!

Special thanks to Chris Danuco for the sick new intro and outro beats!

And shouts out to Nathan Taylor

Welcome back to part two with Noah!

Last week Noah busted our gut with some wild and savage stories, male G-spot, being pimped, etc. 

This week we dive into stories of Psychadelic drugs, spirituality, cults,  and a shout out to Keanu Reeves. 

If any of these topics interests you make sure to turn the volume all the way up, Noah has many detailed stories. Listen carefully, and pay close attention, you wouldn't want to miss a second of this podcast!

And don't forget to check out Noah's podcast Super Happy Fun Time!

Recommendations from Noah:

The Office

The Inbetweeners

Peep Show

Oldboy

Chernobyl

Your Moms house Podcast

We all have stories to tell. And I don't mean your "life story" but stories about moments in your life. Could be the story of your first kiss,  Traveling to Morocco, or that one time you accidentally dropped your grandma's dentures in the toilet... You get the point.  But then you're gifted with two choices. Tell the story, or keep it secret forever. 

Please help us welcome another guest on our show, Noah. And Noah is a man that loves to tell stories, and he does not disappoint. Male G-spot, the couple from craigslist, and becoming blood brothers. These are just a few of the stories that were told, and they are hilarious. 

So if you're in the mood for a good laugh and some wild unfiltered stories, turn that stereo up, cover your kid's ears, and get ready for a wild ride. 

If Noah busted your gut in this episode and you want more of him, head on over and check out his podcast  Super Happy Fun Time!

What would you do if money wasn't a factor? Would you ever get a face tattoo? Do you like to go to the gym? 

Please help us welcome our guest Rizzo to this episode. We are gonna be touching on a variety of topics, some of which were mentioned above, as well as music, pop culture and photography. 

What are you waiting for? Bump that volume to the max, come listen in, and join the conversation!

People, Places & Things we mention:

BROCKHAMPTON

Red Table Talk

Before The Flood 

..and check out Rizzo's podcast, Podcasting Killed the Videostore

We all have thoughts and feelings that we wish to express, but the fear of being judged and misunderstood silences us. We bite our tongue, we swallow our voice. But what if you weren't silent, what if you said fuck it and spoke your mind, told your truth, what would you say?

Please give a warm welcome to our friend Darnell Jones. Darnell runs an organization called B.L.O.O.M, which stands for Brilliant Leading Original Outspoken Minds. The organization is dedicated to helping grow the future. To provide students with different platforms and events to help grow their skills in all areas of life. And to always lend a helping hand when it comes to developing and teaching our future leaders.

Come and join us as we share our experiences on what we wished we had the strength and courage to talk about and express back in our high school days, and what we've learned now as adults.