Hearing this story from my friend made me realize that We sometimes lose ourselves and we need to accept it. But do not bar yourself to go around with a living instead of dwelling with the ghost of the past and the murderer of the future. Life fails to be perfect but never fails to be beautiful. Life is complicated, but you can always choose to be happy. Your purpose, hopes, and every piece of your aspiration must always be rooted in how you see yourself growing and getting better. Do not lose yourself just because someone needs you, just because your dream requires you to do it. Do not just let your entire life revolve around your job or studies, your cruel past, and your fear of the future. You are more than that. Live your present life, always choose yourself, take a break, and do what pleases your soul. Do not let the pressures of the world overpower your pursuit of happiness in the present. It’s time to save yourself by loving yourself even more until you found someone who values the same thing.